“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Met a girl on facebook a few weeks ago (HB7) i message her minimal. She does find me attractive however.
I wanted to try a new approach besides the disinterest = interest.

Heres the convo:

Her : Ya...it's ok lol I have alot of other friends :)

Me : Thats good :) any of them speciaal in particular?

Her : Ehhh friendzoned

Me : Haha that suucks

Her : it did
Her : It doesn't matter tho haha

Me : Haha ive had to friend zone some girls too...
Lets hope you dont fall into that category.. or maaybe you already havee.. (;

Her : Haha it don't matter really :(
Her : I fell into your friend zone category? And I was just confused cause it seemed like you liked me
(I didn't really make it apparent beforehand that I was interested)

Me : You're righht maaybe it doesn't matter.
And dont be silly i never said that.

Her : I never even had a bf

Me : Woaah dont jump the gun we just barely mett haha
And It doesnt matter, its all about happiness really

Her : I know I just said that cause I'm not gonna get one

Me : Well with that attitude a guy like me will pass you uup ahah
Believe it or not good things happen in this world. And whether you think otherwise or not, im one of those good things.

Her : Good :)

-End

Thats it, I felt it was best to not reply after that.

I'm not worried if i blow it i'm just trying to advance my text game and overall non AFC ways. (I'm RAFC)
Frayzer do good or bad?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Too much chatter, not enough ask out.

To me it looks like you're trying too hard to convince her that you're a great thin.

Show her you are - not by cokky chatter, but by asking her out and showing her a great time.
Anything else us just wasting your time entertaining her.


So ask her out. :up:
 

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Purefilth said:
Too much chatter, not enough ask out.

To me it looks like you're trying too hard to convince her that you're a great thin.

Show her you are - not by cokky chatter, but by asking her out and showing her a great time.
Anything else us just wasting your time entertaining her.


So ask her out. :up:

Thanks for your input! I agree on the chatter part, but i'm still in high school(I'm a Junior shes a Freshman) and she lives sort of far.

The conversation beforehand involved me coming over and it escalated to this.

Like I said, I'm not 100% interested i feel it's just a way to advance my game and take some chances I've never tried before :rockon:
 

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I like to keep all text chat and fb message chats simple because otherwise you could spend weeks "gaming" a girl who's never going to come out.

I say go for the meet within the first 3 messages you send(after the initial 'hi' but the sooner the better) the more chit chat you have, the more comfortable she becomes and you just become her texting buddy..trust me, its happened to me. You live you learn. Now I dont even reply to some pretty long messages and most of my game happens after ive asked her out, if she doesnt want to come out. Leave it a few weeks, rinse and repeat. Besides if you have a large number of girls that you can text, you dont have time to be having long interactions with just one of them.

Within the first 3 messages, go for the meet.
Another one, telling her you'll confirm details with her later in the week.
Later in the week, text her the place the time and where to meet you...throw in a little banter or whatever.
On the day text her, you're going to be 15-20 mins late and if shes still coming she'll just say "ok see you then" or something.

Overall that is a maximum of 6 messages, not some long drawn out process. Keep the mystery and just be a busy person then you dont have time to be texting her.
 

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I'd say thats a normal conversation. Maybe a bit intimate if its a first talk. Her saying shes never had a BF and all. It might be a hard nut to crack. She could also be a liar. I wouldn't have sold myself like you did at the end there. Though yeah dude just ask her out on something casual.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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