"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Instead of doing serious talk like I used to do, I've decided to keep things light, smiling a lot, joking, etc. The results are better, although I do notice that women can get offended pretty fast.

What I basically do is to insult their appearance. The thing is, I'm only teasing and do it in a non-serious joking way! I don't even mean it. A real killer I use is to say a woman is older than she looks. Always gives her a pause, minimum, and have had encounters go downhill.

So.....when neg-hitting , do I HAVE to go for subtlety? It won't fool the smart ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Argh!

Do I need to quote or paraphrase my exact approach? That might blow my cover!

"What I basically do is to insult their appearance. The thing is, I'm only teasing and do it in a non-serious joking way! I don't even mean it. A real killer I use is to say a woman is older than she looks. Always gives her a pause, minimum, and have had encounters go downhill."

Is this enough info?
 
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Blast it!

Assuming you're really looking for info, and not some script drama

could you please tell what specific information you're looking for?

I'll take note of it the next time I retry my style.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was my information on my aproach too general? I thought it would have been enough. Maybe the devil is in the details.
 
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WTF!! haha DO U KNOW

THE LAST THING WOMEN WANT TO HEAR IS THEIR AGE?

women hate talking about their age cause it makes them feel old, thats why when u ask them how old they are some might even hesitate to answer.

never ever **** with their age! it's not something you wanna see
 
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Alright it is cool to bust on a 20 year old hottie for looking 50 cuz she knows you're just playing, but if they are older, or less confident, they will probably take offence, so make sure you crack a smile to know that you are playing around. As for tossing negits, I'd say anything they can't change is a neg-hit, (how her face looks, how she smells, etc and to be used only on HB8+ and anything she can change ie: shoes, dresses or attitude is more of a playful busting on her.

Also the set up helps to defer any feelings of demeaning her
So
Insult: Damn, yo head is bigger than anyone's I've ever seen!

Neg-Hit: Hmm, that's weird.... when you speak your nose twitches

C&F : Hey those shoes aren't your style.. you know who'd look better in them? ME!

Of course with the right wording you can turn a Insult into anything, and with the wrong wording you can turn a C&F into an insult.. Just a brief outline for ya
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok I read that....neg-hits sound pretty lame.

"You are so pretty. But not really pretty. Just pretty."

wtf is that?!?! neg-hits are useless in my opinion. C&F would get you a lot farther. i think pvssies use neg hits...i mean..think about it. you're praising her and you sound like a homo in the process. whatever. i dunno how that made it into the bible. maybe cuz it was long.
 
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you are too deliberate in your negging

wait for the context to give you a chance, dont do it more than 1 or 2 times per date, IMHO.

youre not supposed to be like some comedian who gets laugh by playfully insulting the audience
 
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