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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Europeans, how does the race thing play out in your respective countries?

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I've realized we have some Europeans on here so thought I'd get your input.

As an Asian Canadian though, I have noticed how I have had a great experience with European girls and how they were generally quite friendly to me as well as some of my Asian friends.

Recently talked to a Chinese friend of mines who went to Poland and the Czech Republic, told me he did quite well with women there and the amount of attention he was getting on dating apps as well as his night out was insane. I saw pics of some of the girls he matched with as well, they were definitely top tier women with good looks.

While it does vary in the US, in big cities such as NYC and Los Angeles, Asian and Indian men aren't thought too highly of by American women. Guys like me and @skinnyguy have had a great experience in a lot of other cities that aren't NYC and LA, especially in states like Texas and Florida so the Asian and Indian guy setback is probably not even there as much.

I have also talked to my black friends who have been to Europe and they tell me they get way more attention in Europe than they ever did in the United States.

Not too familiar with European culture other than the fact that I have had a great experience with European women in the states and in Canada. It does seem to me like European women care more about how a guy looks in regards to whether he is handsome or not, how much game he has, and how cool he is as opposed to his background.

Granted I think that this might have changed with the refugee crisis, that must have made European women quite weary of Middle Eastern looking guys and foreigners right? Especially in countries that have been hit hard with this sort of stuff like Germany and what happened in Cologne on New Years.

Any Europeans care to let us know how the how race and dating thing there is like for guys that aren't white? Do you have some sort of weird race rankings like we do in the US (whites at top, Asians and Indians at the bottom in places like NYC and LA)? Are certain races thought of as lower than others or do women just not care as much there?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Not European but am familiar with certain European countries.

Germany.

If you're anything other than white or black, stay out! German women absolutely loathe "brown" men due to the Turkish immigrants creeping girls out there as well as the many refugees coming in. This is particularly true of the Aryan blonde types a lot of these guys harass and a lot of non-whites want, do not bother with Germany, they're not so foreign friendly right now and things are nasty there between whites and brown people.

France.

I haven't been there in a while but it seems like almost every French girl I have met has loved going interracial with men of various races. Used to know a brown guy that was cleaning up with some hot French girls and an Asian guy who had the time of his life in France. I think French women might be the least caring of race of all the European women though I could be wrong.

Scandinavia.

Avoid Sweden, it's pretty much like Germany at this point, brown men of any kind are at the bottom of the ladder. Swedish women I have talked to loathe any kind of brown and they are becoming more and more loyal to white men, black guys can still do well.

Norway and Denmark are more doable for minorities though.
 

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From what I have heard personally about Germany from friends is true. My hispanic friends stationed over there did not have nearly enough luck as their black counterparts in getting women. In fact the said if you are not dark/black you will rarely have luck.
 
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From what I have heard personally about Germany from friends is true. My hispanic friends stationed over there did not have nearly enough luck as their black counterparts in getting women. In fact the said if you are not dark/black you will rarely have luck.
Part of it thanks to the "refugees", Arab guys they have in Europe are so sleazy, pervy, while being unaware of how ugly some of them are (most aren't that Omar balkarah guy that got kicked out of a country for being too handsome) that they aggressively throw themselves at German women, same thing in Sweden. They have made it so anyone that looks ethnically exotic like them will have a rough time with the women in any country they have infested.

It still surprises me that latino and brown guys do well in France though, one would think they have a rough time but I have seen them do quite well there.

I think the other part is that racism towards blacks is quite taboo in western Europe and black immigrants, compared to Arab ones, actually try to assimilate and are relatively cool while the Arab ones are entitled, rowdy, and often very sleazy.
 
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Hate to bump this gem but a Turkish dude I talked to told me that Turks and anyone that resembles them are at the bottom of the barrel in Northern Europe, all of it actually, due to the crisis concerning refugees. I almost feel bad for brown guys in general, it's like the decent ones are paying a massive price because of barbaric refugees spreading throughout Europe. Thought Denmark was safe but apparently not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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