"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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European-Dj's Personal Journal.

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Finaly, i decided to make a personal Journal, i have all sort of goals and ambitions, but they usually fade away, or i forget about them.

For that reason, i will start writing my personal Journal, which will mostly cover three things;

* Pick-Up breakthroughs

* "what have i learned - how did i analyse this" articles
articles explaining what the given article made me fell, how i interpreted it and possible disagreements

* WorkOut journal
I wanna do a lot of workouts/exercises, but i am a laze bastard when it comes to sports/workout

How am i going to succed in this?? and what are my goals.

1st;
I have planned to lay 20 girsl for this year (i just turned 19), simply because, during my 18th year, managed to sleep with 50 different girls (NO, WE DID NOT HAVE SEX, SLEEP NEXT TO), but was afraid of my sexuality, which made me **** up and only Fvck like 5 of theese girls -.- ....

2nd;
I have put to myself to write atleast one article pr. weak, so that i have a total of 20 articles until the year shift! ... This is kinda important to me!......

3rd;
I am going to post how many % of the workout and exercise i did each day, since i am not going to post all of my exercises in here, there are too many :)

... This is just the first post, i will probably Redefine, reread, and correct this first post during in a couple of days.


- Let's go!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sweet, another one. We could all possibly get a group together and be the elitists of Sosuave :D.
 

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I did not have sex with the 50 girls i sleept with, it slept next to them... only 5 got me laid.. I have a problem, i supress my sexuality, which makes me come out like a wuss...

- Picking up girls have become 'partially' easy for me, it is the last step i am working on, and until i finish that step, i will stay on this forum...

Anyway, Day 1;
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Day 1;

My first day was actualy amazing, i was in the movies with my friends, and we saw some film.. AFterwards i messegad this girl for a sleep-over, and she accepted.

What happened?

Well, during night , i got her clothes of, and we were about to fvck... i just couldn't get hard ... I need serious help for this issue, since i have had theese problems for some time now ... (lack of sexual confidence i guess)
She was a bit chocked, why? because she thought she didn't turn me on (which she obviously didn't)..
NExt morning, saaaame story, about to have sex, but could not .. i could only manage to get a bit hard when i fantazised about old girls i have been with ..

atleast, i have a new bunch of bproblems i seriously have to work on!

Anyway.. i did go down on her before we went to bed, but damn i was pissed, i left the room afterwards and was in the worst mood EVER .. she coaught this, i hope she will see me again, since she was a - for me - HB8½, GREAT tits, GREAT ass, but not so heigh though.


---- Workout .---

With the workout phace, i did 20 mins of runing (4km) and just about 40% of the work.outs, not acceptable!..


--- Articles ---
I have not started writing articles yet, because of my situation at work, a bit bussy theese days ..
 

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European-DJ said:
i just couldn't get hard ... I need serious help for this issue, since i have had theese problems for some time now ... (lack of sexual confidence i guess)
She was a bit chocked, why? because she thought she didn't turn me on (which she obviously didn't)..
NExt morning, saaaame story, about to have sex, but could not .. i could only manage to get a bit hard when i fantazised about old girls i have been with .. .
Try no mb and no porn dude. Give it a shot for 21 days, and tell me what you think.
 

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Nino-Tk said:
Not sure if porn affects but yeah MB is a killer and it kills your desire to go for girls point blank.
There are very strong links between porn and erectile dysfunction.
 

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I remember someone theorizing that if you refrain from fapping for more than a week, you could get a confidence or testosterone boost out of it maybe. Thing is, I've only gone a week max without fapping. So it is something to try since I will leaving for Myrtle tonight, and that I don't fap during vacations or trips.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Personally, I watch porn like once a week, usually on weekends. For me, its just entertainment because I can clearly distinguish between whats fake and real. I know porn is just fantasy.
I do agree that maybe if one starts watching the freaky porn, with animals, violence, rape etc. Then it does desensitize that person to some degree.
As long as one does not prefer porn over a real lady then Im up for it oh and don't get addicted.
 

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Tonight

First of all, thank you EVERYONE for the great help, i have put up to myself that Porn is OFF LIMITS!! .. Porn is just fantasy anyway, NO MN is not an option though, i will go from once a day to once a week though (this will be tuff) :D

** DING DING **

I have been hunting this girl for ½ an year, we have been hot & cold vs. one another lately, but all of the sudden i meet her at this bar...

What happens?

We sit, we talk, we connect, we kiss.. I take her home, and we fvkc!
- It was a very gentle fvck, we were both like " we shouldn't do it while drunk", obviously i had no intension of doing anything else than that.

- +1, 19 to go (I have decided to fvck atleast 20 girls within my 19th year)

** Workout **

I did not know that the fitnessCenter closes at 8 during fridays, so i only managed to do 10% of my workout ... once again dissapointing, i have to take my workouts more serious!?

** Articles **
I have startet my article, 200 words in, it's a start, 5 days until deadline!..


*** THEESE UPDATES ARE MADE RATHER QUICK, SO I AM NOT LOOKING AT GRAMMA NOR WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN, I AM DOING THEESE UPDATES DURING MY BRAKE AT WORK ***
 
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