"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eugggh. Pissed at myself

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Dan08

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Basically got rejected in a roundabout way from a girl I was hoping to bang soon. I know I know, it's all about them being good enough for us, living our lives with girls coming secondary. I've got the theory I just can't put it into practice.

So now I'm pissed off at myself for letting it be this important to me when I never should have let it be in the first place. I'm looking around me thinking now what?
I want to live my life and do things but I haven't a clue where I want to go or what to do. I want more hobbies and interests but haven't a clue where to begin :(

See, deep down inside me I know I'm a great guy, I know I have a lot to offer people and I am very genuine so it's frustrating that I can't take that feeling and apply it to my life and enrich it as a result. I'm just lost right now guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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apprenticedj

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Dan my man, take it easy. I've been there (still am some days), feeling low as dirt, rock bottom type of feeling. It sucks so bad that words can't accurately describe it. It's ok to kick yourself for a bit, let the gloom wash over you but ONLY BRIEFLY! There is a huge upside to this because you can only improve from this position but you have to understand it's a LONG journey. We're in similiar place right about now so I know how you feel. Start small and build on your progress. These guys are truly on point when they talk about working on yourself before worrying about girls. It's annoying to hear sometimes but it's true. Don't be so hard on yourself buddy, just think of the look on that girls face when she sees you on the town in a few months looking and feeling great. Then you can turn the tables on her! Keep your head up my friend.
 
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Dan08 said:
Basically got rejected in a roundabout way from a girl I was hoping to bang soon. I know I know, it's all about them being good enough for us, living our lives with girls coming secondary. I've got the theory I just can't put it into practice.

So now I'm pissed off at myself for letting it be this important to me when I never should have let it be in the first place. I'm looking around me thinking now what?
I want to live my life and do things but I haven't a clue where I want to go or what to do. I want more hobbies and interests but haven't a clue where to begin :(

See, deep down inside me I know I'm a great guy, I know I have a lot to offer people and I am very genuine so it's frustrating that I can't take that feeling and apply it to my life and enrich it as a result. I'm just lost right now guys.
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Dude, stop being so pissed at yourself and just live your life.. Girls come and go, in a few months time, you won't even remember her, you'll be chasing other chicks..

In terms of interest, what's your passion? Follow that.
Hobbies - there are loads:
-Martial Arts
-Gym
-Dancing clubs
-Sports club (football or whatever sport you're into)

You sound like a younger me, I was lost and unsure wtf I wanna do, you'll find your way in due time. Good luck bruh
 
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