You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So, do you know? Are Aussie white women as comparatively worthless as American white women?True that brother. Apart from a few back slidings just to get it wet I haven't troubled Aussie girls for over 12 years.
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Real question:True that brother. Apart from a few back slidings just to get it wet I haven't troubled Aussie girls for over 12 years.
Well backbreaker imported his and last time I checked in with him it was going great. Obviously any experienced guy here isn't going to be taken in by the scams so maybe p.m. him.
Because it's the only ethnicity I've never been with.Why the bloody hell would you want that?
What mischief are you up to now?![]()
If I use a condom?I d say Aussie girls are probably only second to USA for entitlement. Current g/f was a setup from Friends in a big group night out. But my game was tight that night if it wasn't her it would have been the Japanese sushi waitress. Asian girls before that have either been cold approaches or downloads.
Geez froggy an abo Hooker will rot your robot **** off
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
F*ck racist women.Ethnic meaning anything other than white and black women, I was going to say that but not enough space in the topic line.
We've heard it countless times to where everyone is sick and tired of ethnic guys going after white women, how can they get their nasty darker hands on them, but lets talk about the other side of it....
They often tell you
Why not go for hot girls of your own race.
Now if you're chasing FOBish girls, maybe that is an option but for those of us who grew up in western culture and actually like speaking English, enjoying the culture we are in, and assimilating into the society; we can't date hot girls of our own race who have done the same.
I mean it is a running stereotype among Asian American women that if they are assimilated into western society, they're going to go for white guys. In fact from my own experience, Asian American women are even harsher on Asian men than white American women are, although some out-dated online dating studies will say otherwise.
And it isn't just Asian men in the west facing this issue either.
I notice that other than white men and black men, all other men face this issue. Pretty sure that @skinnyguy can attest to the fact that Indian girls out in California are the same as Asian girls, they hate men of their own race.
For a while I thought Middle Eastern men were immune to it, not after being in Southern California. Almost all the Persian girls you see who have assimilated into western culture are either going for white guys or pulling a Kim Kardashian and going black.
Latino guys face the same thing too as latinas go interracial at rates just as high as Asian women.
But it baffles me that because the heavily white pickup culture benefits from ethnic women, no one has an issue here yet everyone loses their mind when ethnic men want to go for white women.
So as an ethnic guy, you really only have 2 choices.
1. Max out everything about yourself and go for white women who, after you have made yourself a quality guy, will give you a chance.
2. Go for black women who are less choosy and often very open to going for men of other races. I am not into black women myself and haven't known many ethnic men (other than latinos) that were, also not the type to force men to go for women they aren't into as opposed to some guys on here.
Everything in-between is not an option because those women in the west either want to desperately find a white mate, or will leave you on the drop of the dime the second an opportunity comes along, or they want to be cool and hip by going for black guys. Assimilated ethnic men have no option but to go for black or white women because ethnic women in North America are so self-hating.