"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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JH6

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Hey Guys,

Now I already knew this, but for some reason I didn't listen to myself. I should have but I didn't.

Girls are freggin evil.

So girl number one I have been talking to her for a few months, hanging out alot, going to dinners not coffee, we had sex a few times, and I didn't realize it but I was getting emotional with this girl. So I think everything is going good or whatever, I go over there today to chill with her.

So just casually we are talking she's like yeah so I'm going to Florida this weekend with my boyfriend to see his son.

This is the most confusing thing a girl has ever said to me, i felt like someone punched me in the chest.

So we got into the big yelling contest, and i'm pretty sure i don't want to talk to this broad again.

I look back on it, the DJ in me says that the sex was good so I got what I wanted, but the emo part of me is really sad because I became sort of attached to this girl.

So I get home, and pouted for a while. Then i got on my cell phone, calling as many old flings as possible, damn they all have new flings.

Tonight is going to be a night of drinking with my boys and thats it.

Jay
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not much you can do about the situation. It sounds like you realize what happened and aren't making any pretensions about it. For a lot of people, it's hard to keep sex and emotions separate from one another, which is what sounds like happened here. Rest assured that there are more fish in the sea - even if you have to wait a few days or weeks to catch a new one, it'll happen soon enough.
 
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Don't lose your cool.

When you get blindsided like this, the best thing to do is to start laughing. Of course, you have to teach yourself to do this.
 
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thanks fellas, i wasted zero time. I ended up going out with this girl that I met on myspace (yeah it sounds freaky, but she's cute and normal). Now, i'm not a cheap person at all, and I've got plenty of money to spend, but I thought I'd share this with you guys. We drove to Niagara Falls, NY in my truck. She bought me dinner, then we went to checkout the friday night fireworks in the falls, and on date one i got a good kiss. The three strikes and your out rule always applies boys, keep moving towards your goal.

Things are back on the up and up, and i'm almost back to the level I need to be operating at.

I'm hypnotising myself (not literally) into being confident, and its working.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JH6 just said what the hell I have been trying to tell to members on this forum, that this thing with women is overrated, and it should just be simple and stupid.

He said, I am hypotizing myself and it is working....women are attracted to the mental over the physical, mind, over matter. If you guys would understand this and stop stressing out over being ****y and funny, then, haha, I am done talking.......

PVSSY-EATER OUT
 
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