"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Establishing Rules for Fvck Buddies

river105

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Does anyone have any experience on how to set something like this up? I have heard a lot of general advice about relationships to basically not start relationship conversations with girls. But in this case, should I bring up the possibility of fvck buddies, and discuss it?

Im basically in a situation where I have a girl who I believe is interested in it, but I dont think she knows that I am... How do I let her know that I am interested and to make it perfectly clear that we are just friends...with benefits?

Ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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river105 said:
Does anyone have any experience on how to set something like this up? I have heard a lot of general advice about relationships to basically not start relationship conversations with girls. But in this case, should I bring up the possibility of fvck buddies, and discuss it?

Im basically in a situation where I have a girl who I believe is interested in it, but I dont think she knows that I am... How do I let her know that I am interested and to make it perfectly clear that we are just friends...with benefits?

Ideas?
No need to talk it out. F*ck her, then don't bother calling her back for a while. Repeat.

She'll get the idea. In a couple weeks she'll probably start *****ing that you're just f*cking her. Of course at this point you should have her on a leash anyway, so just laugh and tell her that it takes time for the two of you to build a relationship.

At this point she might try to withold sex. Act like you don't care. If she continues being *****y about it, leave and find a new FB.
 

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river105 said:
Does anyone have any experience on how to set something like this up? I have heard a lot of general advice about relationships to basically not start relationship conversations with girls. But in this case, should I bring up the possibility of fvck buddies, and discuss it?

Im basically in a situation where I have a girl who I believe is interested in it, but I dont think she knows that I am... How do I let her know that I am interested and to make it perfectly clear that we are just friends...with benefits?

Ideas?
No need to talk it out. F*ck her, then don't bother calling her back for a while. Repeat.

She'll get the idea. In a couple weeks she'll probably start *****ing that you're just f*cking her. Of course at this point you should have her on a leash anyway, so just laugh and tell her that it takes time for the two of you to build a relationship.

At this point she might try to withold sex. Act like you don't care. If she continues being *****y about it, leave and find a new FB.
 

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Thing is, I dont think she has a relationship in mind at all. She just wants to have "fun."

So I think she wants a sex buddy relationship, but she might think i want a full relationship, and thats what I am trying to ask: how do i pretty clearly state that i dont want a full relationship?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just avoid the topic for as long as possible.

When it cant be avoided just tell them your not after anything serious, at this point they can take it or leave it, but if you give them mindblowing sex, they'll keep coming back. Some of them will see it as a challenge to 'convert you'.
 

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river105 said:
Thing is, I dont think she has a relationship in mind at all. She just wants to have "fun."

So I think she wants a sex buddy relationship, but she might think i want a full relationship, and thats what I am trying to ask: how do i pretty clearly state that i dont want a full relationship?
From my experience when a girl just wants to have "fun" she doesn't want a "sex buddy relationship", she just wants "sex".
Considering that most women don’t know what they want it’s hard to tell.

****, hit it until it dries up if it makes you happy.
 
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