"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Esquire magazine article

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You guys have got to read the esquire article this month the magazine features bruce springsteen on the cover and the article is amazing hit me back up if u want more info:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hit you back
 
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man, I wish I would have thought of this what a great idea for a thread.

right paradox:)
 

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Broooooooose Esprinsteeeeen is da $hit. Great article. I'm a big fan, so I was gonna pick it up anyway, but more importantly for all you guys in here, it contains an article on Style, the pick up artist, aka. Neil Strauss from the New York times; he writes about how he had to interview Britney Spears, she was being a bitsh, because she is so bored of the same questions, etc. etc. So Style starting using Sarging techniques, and she started to respond; just because he was interesting and entertaining, she started to dig him. Must read.
 
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