SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Does anyone know the female equivalent of sosuave.com? We need to get a firsthand look of how the females are tackling this problem on their own. We could see how they really think...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Espionage? Reconnaissance?
- Thread starter SickAgain
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Aye, if you're really wondering, read Seventeen magazine. Thats like their manual.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
What? Really? So you're saying their all perfect?Bvbidd said:They don't really have problems buddy.
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Actually, I don't think this could be further from the truth. Have you seen all the Magazines/Dating books for women? They have all kinds of dating advice one whether this guy or that guy is right for them, and how to prevent scaring them off. I think reading these books is actually a good idea for AFC's. It will make you look at women in a whole different light...they have tons of insecurities! Why do you think they're always asking "Does this outfit make me look fat?" ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
most have guys chasing after them? you are crazy. they only wish that. most girls would love to feel as if they were wanted by men. not little boys, but by men. the better looking they are the more isolated and alone they feel. most of you have never actually seduced a really beautiful girl. that is obvious. the more beautiful the girl is the more fragile she is. it is the fatty and/or the tramp that has the poorest of attitudes.
it is partly a cultural thing. the typical girl in america acts ****y but that is only because of her feminist upbringing. being confident is supposed to be sexy. at least that is what they are told. every culture on this earth is different, however the fact of the matter is that girls were put on this earth to serve men. if you let any of them make you feel bad or insecure you have yet to learn why the big G-O-D ever created them in the first place.
it is partly a cultural thing. the typical girl in america acts ****y but that is only because of her feminist upbringing. being confident is supposed to be sexy. at least that is what they are told. every culture on this earth is different, however the fact of the matter is that girls were put on this earth to serve men. if you let any of them make you feel bad or insecure you have yet to learn why the big G-O-D ever created them in the first place.