Being Caucasian, hardly any escorts will refuse to see me on racial grounds. I've managed to get around a different wall an escort put up, however. This one escort only sees 35+ men. Yet I, being 32, got her to bend the rule.Seriously though, you are only pulling your credit card if you are dealing with OnlyFans. People who visit escorts, will say some type of game is needed since escorts reject guys. For example, if you are a black guy wanting to deal with an escort that says no blacks, then you would need some solid A-game (ie act like you are one exceptional black guy who is married and is visiting on a business trip). People like @Murk and @Gamisch are Black, or have Black in them, and have managed to deal with "no black" escorts.
Assuming an escort is not rejecting on race, then you still need some game not to look like some wierdo that would make her feel uncomfortable or start talking about politics or some heavy stuff like that that would throw off the whole mood of the session.