"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
escape the FRIENDZONE!!!
- Thread starter Purefilth
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Great vid. I've seen him before, he gives it to you straight in a very man to man sort of way.
Fair play to the video. I've watched all these videos and read every bit of material about getting out and I'm sure everyone knows how hard it is to get out the FZ.
Sometimes its just not even worth it to try. Just dont get into it in the first place. Make your intentions clear from the start guys. Thats my advice.
Would love to hear stories about people who actually got out.
Sometimes its just not even worth it to try. Just dont get into it in the first place. Make your intentions clear from the start guys. Thats my advice.
Would love to hear stories about people who actually got out.