Escalating to kissing and/or more...advice

[Prestige]

Alright..i'd like to start off by saying that last nite was a wicked nite. I went out to a big bonfire party with my cousin. I only knew about 3-4 people there out of about 35-40 people (all were older by about 2-3 years). I finally grew a set and last nite I said "**** IT!!!"... I talked to everybody there at least 1-2 times minimum and even managed to scoop a few ladies in the process, even got a BF pissed at me.

However, there was one thing I had a problem with.. both the girls I 'picked-up' were def. feeling me and one was even giving me the 'doggy dinner bowl' look and lots of playing and hitting hehe, but I just couldn't figure out how to escalate to bigger and better things. My mind just seemed to stop thinking once I got to that point.. then things started to get a bit 'stale' so I just bailed and went and talked to other people.

Any advice on how I could have escalated these 2 girls to kissing,touching, etc?

EDIT: Keep in mind this all took place outside, around a fire in a big sand pit

 

[Prestige]

bizzump

 

[DasaniWater]

First and foremost, talk to them, establish some sort of dominance, make them very interested in you, start some Kino, then lead them outside of the scene into a more private part of the woods. The rest is pretty much so suave!

 

[petah2001]

yeah I know where you're coming from. I have flirted with tons of girls with whom I could have taken it further but never could. The last time I made out with a girl at a party was when we were both sitting on the couch together and we started by complaining how we were the only sober people there and eventually our conversation kept on going and I inched closer and closer on the couch as we complimented eachother.

I believe the closer was when she complimented my hair and kind of stroked it, it was too easy from here and I did the same to her and brought my face to her and the rest was history.

Your situation sounds far more complicated, I hate that about open environments with no privacy. Body language is tricky when you're standing face to face with no physical contact so all I could reccomend is to move the conversation elsewhere. Just sit down somewhere invitingly, even if it's in the middle of nowhere.

 

[Prestige]

ya, right on guys.. it was kinda hard being out in the open like that. Those 'pit parties' are an absolute blast though, and i recomend anyone in the area come check one out sometime.

As I was saying though, both girls were hard ass situations. One was there with her 'group' of guy friends that all want her and will never get her...so as soon as they see her talking to anybody they feel they have to interupt and ****, u know how it is. As for the other girl, her BF was hovering around all nite. Next time I guess i'll just say '**** IT!' even harder and just got for everything. peace

On a site note, the one girl ended up taking a cab home with me and 3 other people and i was the first stop. She kept asking me for money cuz she didnt hAve enough to get home. I todl her it was not my problem and that she should be prepared when she goes out drinking, all the while her guy friends were in the back going "ohh il give u money, its ok ill get u home". Did I handle that well?