"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bonito

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So I have been dating this girl for week or two. We've seen each other 6-7 times so far. We've also hooked up. Yesterday, I went to her place and I was sitting next to her and watching TV together. She seemed really distant. Afterwards, she sent me a message saying, I had bad breath. I ate some Chinese food and forgot to carry mouth freshener. I was embarrassed..

How do I recover from here? Or how shall I ask her out next time?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Die Hard

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Ask yourself this:

How would the sexiest guy in the world handle this? Someone like Bradd Pitt or whoever is considered the man nowaydays, google a list of sexiest men alive. Look at a picture of that guy posing for the cameras on a red carpet at some event. Look at his smug, ueber confident face, with some HB9 holding his arm. How would that dude handle this situation?

Don't ask us, you can imagine the answer yourself. Now act like that, problem solved.

AS YOU THINK, YOU SHALL BECOME.
 

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I find that, as a guy, sometimes its ok to smell bad. Now, if it were a chick who smelt bad, well, that's really the end of the world.

But for a rough and tumble, masculine guy to smell bad, well, that's ok with most chicks, or so my experiences have led me to believe.

I'm not a smoker, you know, I think it smells really bad. But i was fcuking this chick I picked up at the bar on saturday night, and I smoked a few cigarettes, and my breath must have really stunk (she was not a smoker).

But, she was sooooo into me and sooooo turned on by me that it didn't matter. And in fact, I sort of think it made her like me even more, because tobacco is sort of a manly, masculine smell, and because I look so cool when I smoke.
 

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^ I dont like it. Needs more humor/indifference.

Id of responded with something like "Thats exactly what i was going for." The key is to not get rattled by stupid sh1t tests. Just deflect them and carry on. If your hooking up your obviously doing more good things than bad....its only "embarrassing" if you let yourself feel embarrassed.
 

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Die Hard said:
Ask yourself this:

How would the sexiest guy in the world handle this? Someone like Bradd Pitt or whoever is considered the man nowaydays, google a list of sexiest men alive. Look at a picture of that guy posing for the cameras on a red carpet at some event. Look at his smug, ueber confident face, with some HB9 holding his arm. How would that dude handle this situation?

Don't ask us, you can imagine the answer yourself. Now act like that, problem solved.

AS YOU THINK, YOU SHALL BECOME.
this is gold +1
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chickfight

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Op worded it very badly, but I think he's saying SHE said SHE had bad breath and was embarassed
 
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