Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Erica Campbell

Nexus Polaris

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One of my favorites. Probably a solid 9.

I don't get where everybody is coming from with all this "flab" stuff, though. That's a pretty healthy body fat percentage to me. Anything less than that, and you start to venture into skinny/waif territory. I can't hang with all that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nexus Polaris said:
One of my favorites. Probably a solid 9.

I don't get where everybody is coming from with all this "flab" stuff, though. That's a pretty healthy body fat percentage to me. Anything less than that, and you start to venture into skinny/waif territory. I can't hang with all that.

Depends on her height. I never said flab, but if she's 5'11 then she's a moose. 5' 1 and she's cute as a button.
 
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