"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Erection Problems

ALPHAROMEO

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my friend has had erection problems of late ( with a new GF °

any tips how to cure his "problem
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ALPHAROMEO

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just curious
how much does VIAGRA cost in THE STATES ?
very expensive in FRANCE

Any reliable company my friend could order the product from ?
 

n00bPimp

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Tell your "friend" to drink more water. I drink 6-8 cups of tap water daily and my energy is noticeably higher than the day when i dont drink as much. This really helps my erection, now my erections are healthier and more throbbing. And if you think I'm joking I got the pics to prove it.

>> Erection picture
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamTheHobit

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Lol
 

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ALPHAROMEO said:
my friend has had erection problems of late ( with a new GF °

any tips how to cure his "problem
Depends on the "erection problem". One size does not fit all (pun intended).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan_DeRosco

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Viagra is a short term solution and in the end, over reliance on it can lead to exactly what its trying to prevent.

His only problems are psychological. Its a new girl, slight performance anxiety is not unheard of. The more he plays around with her, the quicker it will disappear.


Unless of course, she is really ugly.
 

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Viagra is like steroids for you d!ck. Not only will it get you hard, but pre-mature ejaculation isn't a problem when you're on it either. It's amazing.

But many things can cause erection problems.. Stress, physical and/or emotion exhaustion, drugs (OTC, prescription, illegal), performance anxiety, alcohol, sickness, disease, thinking about other things instead of just being in "the moment."
 

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When a girlfriend doesn't do it for you, get a new one or become a don juan. Why aren't you helping him become a pimp?
 

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Korrupt said:
Viagra is like steroids for you d!ck. Not only will it get you hard, but pre-mature ejaculation isn't a problem when you're on it either. It's amazing.
It's seems amazing to me that someone who is 21 would have tried Viagra (assuming you speak from experience). I am almost twice that age and never tried it. Do people do it for recreational use?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mikeyb

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I've had the same problem, it's just nerves with a new girl. He'll be fine next time they do it, or the time after that.
 

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bigneil said:
It's seems amazing to me that someone who is 21 would have tried Viagra (assuming you speak from experience). I am almost twice that age and never tried it. Do people do it for recreational use?
Just for the hell of it I took half a pill before I saw my f*ck buddy. Now I know how male pornstars do what they do.
 

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Exercise and look into kegels and reverse kegels. Trust me, your erections will be through the roof. Also, stop watching porn. When you think about it, that **** is filth anyway.
 

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bigneil said:
It's seems amazing to me that someone who is 21 would have tried Viagra (assuming you speak from experience). I am almost twice that age and never tried it. Do people do it for recreational use?
are you kidding?

I'm in my 20's too.

Viagra is the great equalizer if you are lacking confidence or just want to REALLY impress a girl in the sack. Young guys are using it, thought you knew.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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