Erectile Dysfunction at 18?

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

So the first time I had sex a month ago I could barely get an erection. I would get hard for less than a minute and then go soft. I probably had sex for 3 minutes the whole night. It was way embarrassing. We would make out and **** for like 20 minutes until i got an erection. I would **** her and then I would go soft right away. She even gave me dome to try to get it up but that didn't even work. I was way drunk and high at the time so that might have something to do with it. But then last night, I was hooking up with this chick and got her naked and was putting on the condom and then my **** went soft. I told her I couldn't do it and so that was that. Way embarrassing. I was only buzzed at the time and not high. So what the hell is the deal? I thought erectile dysfunction was for older men, not 18 year olds. Does anyone know how I can fix this?????

 

[Fred Da Head]

Why don't you try having sex while sober before whining and crying about ED?

If you try to have sex WHILE SOBER again and again and it doesn't work, THEN you should go see your doctor.

 

[ryannath]

You are not relaxed when it's happening. It happens the first few times. It also happens to me when I am trying to put a condom on. All you are focused on is getting the condom out and not breaking it, and putting it on right, and by the time you get it out, you are soft because you're mind was on the condom. Have her sucking you while you open the condom and don't let her stop sucking until you have the condom in your hand and out.

 

[Fred Da Head]

Wow, if you can manage to totally lose an erection in the 10 seconds it takes to open a condom wrapper and get it ready to roll it down your ****... either you need to re-evaluate your sexuality and whether you like girls, or you need to talk to your doctor about ED.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Maybe your jackn off too much and watchn too much porn. Don't do any of that for 1 week and then see what happens.

Smokin bud lowers your testorone; that could play a factor.

You might not be in the right mind set. Or worrying too much about going limp.

If it still continues see a doctor.

 

[itishe]

Wow...

you said you were drunk and hight, and you wonder why you can't get a hard on.

 

[needexc]

aye lol dont have sex/wanking for a week...ull have an explosion

 

[djSlvt]

Use your whiskey d1ck with her. Tell her to turn around, raise her butt up, and close her eyes, and you can thumb her to orgasm.


I'd go to a porn site, while sober and not high, watch some porno and try to jerk off. If my c0ck goes limp while I'm a lone jerking off to porn, then there is a problem. Here porn site http://www.boysfood.com/

 

[Randallpink83]

yeah I know this problem well - its nerves more then likely. Here is what I did to fix the problem.

1. Stop Masturbating... period.

2. Dont watch porn. (obviously if your not masturbating you wont) you dont want to be de-sensitized you want just her body to completly turn you on, I used to watch so much porn i was almost bored with a naked woman.

3. Relax... if you cant relax then avoid one night stands or quickies like that. Get some experience first with a girl you are comfertable with. The 'old school' classic routine of actual dating and some nights making out and every night progressively going farther.. that will get you comfertable enough for when the time comes your not thinking of anything but her and pleasure.

I dont think alcohol/weed has much to with this. unless you were so drunk you were puking. Cause in my experience both the above drugs could make me go marathon fukin when I was comfertable with the girl of course...

I think this is just a cross between being to hardcore with sex (watching to m uch porn, having a bored mind and jacking off way too much) and getting nervous when about to have sex. Good Luck.

 

[Randallpink83]

....just to let you know.... Married couples do it best... ever wonder why????