"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Era in time you would prefer to be a DJ?

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Hey guys I'm studying Humanities in College right now. Right now we're studying the Egyptians - they were a great group of people, very smart and kept a stable civilization for a span of 2000 years. Then again, I prefer The Greeks a lot better, they very much resemble our western culture and ideals.

This got me sort of thinking, if you could live anywhere in the past, where would it be and why?....I know this sounds like a topic your english teacher would probably give you for one of your daily journals or something..but then again..it's freakin interesting.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never underestimate the revulsion power of body odor. Every civilization before modern times has suffered from insane wreaks of poor hygiene. Who would want to live in a society where people would bathe only perhaps once a week (and we're talking about nobility)? The ladies were certainly not in good shape, probably missing some teeth, not to mention loaded with disease. Most notably, lifespans were not quite what they are now. If I lived in any other era, I most certainly would be dead by now.

Women have never looked (or smelled) any better than they do right now. Consider the worst, most reviling women of today. Those were the beauty queens of yesteryear.
 

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I have to say, Ive always had a fascination with the Roman empire. I would have loved to be around in the time Julius Cesar was Cesar. Just to see him, the architecture and the atmosphere in Rome at the time. I would have also loved to have been in the Colluseum, would have been something absolutely phenominal, cruel, but still, a part of recent history that will remain unforgettable for a long long time.
 

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Deep Dish said:
Never underestimate the revulsion power of body odor. Every civilization before modern times has suffered from insane wreaks of poor hygiene. Who would want to live in a society where people would bathe only perhaps once a week (and we're talking about nobility)? The ladies were certainly not in good shape, probably missing some teeth, not to mention loaded with disease. Most notably, lifespans were not quite what they are now. If I lived in any other era, I most certainly would be dead by now.

Women have never looked (or smelled) any better than they do right now. Consider the worst, most reviling women of today. Those were the beauty queens of yesteryear.
True, but not sure woman were as fat in many eras of history as they are right now in the west.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deep Dish said:
Never underestimate the revulsion power of body odor. Every civilization before modern times has suffered from insane wreaks of poor hygiene. Who would want to live in a society where people would bathe only perhaps once a week (and we're talking about nobility)? The ladies were certainly not in good shape, probably missing some teeth, not to mention loaded with disease. Most notably, lifespans were not quite what they are now. If I lived in any other era, I most certainly would be dead by now.

Women have never looked (or smelled) any better than they do right now. Consider the worst, most reviling women of today. Those were the beauty queens of yesteryear.
The thing is, if you lived in those times, you wouldn't know of the wonders of today. You'd be used to the sights and smells you describe as bad. Basically, the standard of beauty back then would become your own. You're cheating the question of its value by using knowledge and experience you wouldn't have.
 

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CLOONEY said:
I have to say, Ive always had a fascination with the Roman empire. I would have loved to be around in the time Julius Cesar was Cesar. Just to see him, the architecture and the atmosphere in Rome at the time. I would have also loved to have been in the Colluseum, would have been something absolutely phenominal, cruel, but still, a part of recent history that will remain unforgettable for a long long time.

actually, thats a good point :)

Hygiene was fairly decent back then. public baths, running water and actual toilets (not just chamberpots or holes in the ground... for most people)

truely an era of beauty... lot of violence too, but beauty :)
 

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lol the Freudians are going to have a field day on this one.

You 'prefer' the Greeks, huh? Heh, you know there is a reason that anal sex is refered to as 'greek' right? And besides, those ancient Greeks believed that the highest form of love was bewteen a grown man and a boy, while true love was between two men.
 

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Centaurion said:
lol the Freudians are going to have a field day on this one.

You 'prefer' the Greeks, huh? Heh, you know there is a reason that anal sex is refered to as 'greek' right? And besides, those ancient Greeks believed that the highest form of love was bewteen a grown man and a boy, while true love was between two men.
lol.....damn..I just learned something new today.
 

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native American time a hundred years before Columbus at least.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would have to say the 60's-70's era. That was when we didn't have AIDS and all of the major STD's were easily curable with a shot of penicillian.
 

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I think it would depend on whether I'd be able to choose my social status. I'd choose either the High Renaissance or Imperial Rome.
 

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