"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Era in time you would prefer to be a DJ?

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Hey guys I'm studying Humanities in College right now. Right now we're studying the Egyptians - they were a great group of people, very smart and kept a stable civilization for a span of 2000 years. Then again, I prefer The Greeks a lot better, they very much resemble our western culture and ideals.

This got me sort of thinking, if you could live anywhere in the past, where would it be and why?....I know this sounds like a topic your english teacher would probably give you for one of your daily journals or something..but then again..it's freakin interesting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Never underestimate the revulsion power of body odor. Every civilization before modern times has suffered from insane wreaks of poor hygiene. Who would want to live in a society where people would bathe only perhaps once a week (and we're talking about nobility)? The ladies were certainly not in good shape, probably missing some teeth, not to mention loaded with disease. Most notably, lifespans were not quite what they are now. If I lived in any other era, I most certainly would be dead by now.

Women have never looked (or smelled) any better than they do right now. Consider the worst, most reviling women of today. Those were the beauty queens of yesteryear.
 

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I have to say, Ive always had a fascination with the Roman empire. I would have loved to be around in the time Julius Cesar was Cesar. Just to see him, the architecture and the atmosphere in Rome at the time. I would have also loved to have been in the Colluseum, would have been something absolutely phenominal, cruel, but still, a part of recent history that will remain unforgettable for a long long time.
 

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Deep Dish said:
Never underestimate the revulsion power of body odor. Every civilization before modern times has suffered from insane wreaks of poor hygiene. Who would want to live in a society where people would bathe only perhaps once a week (and we're talking about nobility)? The ladies were certainly not in good shape, probably missing some teeth, not to mention loaded with disease. Most notably, lifespans were not quite what they are now. If I lived in any other era, I most certainly would be dead by now.

Women have never looked (or smelled) any better than they do right now. Consider the worst, most reviling women of today. Those were the beauty queens of yesteryear.
True, but not sure woman were as fat in many eras of history as they are right now in the west.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Deep Dish said:
Never underestimate the revulsion power of body odor. Every civilization before modern times has suffered from insane wreaks of poor hygiene. Who would want to live in a society where people would bathe only perhaps once a week (and we're talking about nobility)? The ladies were certainly not in good shape, probably missing some teeth, not to mention loaded with disease. Most notably, lifespans were not quite what they are now. If I lived in any other era, I most certainly would be dead by now.

Women have never looked (or smelled) any better than they do right now. Consider the worst, most reviling women of today. Those were the beauty queens of yesteryear.
The thing is, if you lived in those times, you wouldn't know of the wonders of today. You'd be used to the sights and smells you describe as bad. Basically, the standard of beauty back then would become your own. You're cheating the question of its value by using knowledge and experience you wouldn't have.
 

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CLOONEY said:
I have to say, Ive always had a fascination with the Roman empire. I would have loved to be around in the time Julius Cesar was Cesar. Just to see him, the architecture and the atmosphere in Rome at the time. I would have also loved to have been in the Colluseum, would have been something absolutely phenominal, cruel, but still, a part of recent history that will remain unforgettable for a long long time.

actually, thats a good point :)

Hygiene was fairly decent back then. public baths, running water and actual toilets (not just chamberpots or holes in the ground... for most people)

truely an era of beauty... lot of violence too, but beauty :)
 

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lol the Freudians are going to have a field day on this one.

You 'prefer' the Greeks, huh? Heh, you know there is a reason that anal sex is refered to as 'greek' right? And besides, those ancient Greeks believed that the highest form of love was bewteen a grown man and a boy, while true love was between two men.
 

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Centaurion said:
lol the Freudians are going to have a field day on this one.

You 'prefer' the Greeks, huh? Heh, you know there is a reason that anal sex is refered to as 'greek' right? And besides, those ancient Greeks believed that the highest form of love was bewteen a grown man and a boy, while true love was between two men.
lol.....damn..I just learned something new today.
 

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native American time a hundred years before Columbus at least.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would have to say the 60's-70's era. That was when we didn't have AIDS and all of the major STD's were easily curable with a shot of penicillian.
 

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I think it would depend on whether I'd be able to choose my social status. I'd choose either the High Renaissance or Imperial Rome.
 

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