You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
As Einstein might have said, with fat chicks, there's a lot more curvature of space.I tried having a ONS with one a few months back.
Couldn't do it. She was panting before I even went in, I had trouble finding literally everything, positions were difficult, and I was struggling to even stay hard.
It was disgusting. I felt disgusted and I just got up and left. It's not like she could run after me.
Yeah it was 100% experimental.I sincerely hope this was an experimental stage in your life and never to be repeated again.
Fuvking a fattie will kill something inside a man, slowly but surely it kills some part of you.
Sleep apnea, low self esteem, sore back and achey joints too.Problem is.. They are getting FATTER. Do you know the average size of a woman is size 12? It was a 4 in the 60s. To be fair, men have been getting fatter as well. It's disgusting. Not only do we have to look at these people and smell them, but they are the reasons why health care is so damn expensive in America. Now, if someone has a real unpreventable medical condition, that is one thing. However, diabetes, HBP, LBP, HCL, LCL, etc. can all be avoided. This is not rocket science.
I agree, peoples regard for personal fitness has largely been ignored here. It's such a shame.no offence guys but in europe we always thought of america as of HAMerica with fat people only lol regardless if its true or not, thats one of first 3 things person here thinks when he hears or talks about America
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm as attracted to fat women as I am a rock.having sex with fat women may damage you physically if you are weak minded. you will think about this over n over because of social stigma about fat women.
but id do it if no one would get to know about it HAHAHA
I never could understand this. At least, before the red pill awareness. Even a couple years in the trenches of pickup, I had cognitive dissonance. What I had believed and was taught collided with the reality I was experiencing. I started pickup seeking a wife long term after having been forged through the fire. Its a lost cause in the west especially with given laws, child custody, and divorce rape. Its a red pill to swallow finding married women easier to bed (they do the propositioning) then ladies night at a local bar. Its pretty telling.Keeping in mind that a man will spend 80% of his wealth for women, I would rather spend it on top escorts than fornitures, presents and travels for a fat wife.
Once you get yourself free from the "validation scam", the world will look much more simple.
The following is not helping the dating market. I remember clubbing in my teens. I saw a skinny black dude with a 400lbs slob white woman. I was angry that someone could have such low self worth.Cost to who? The AFCs or the overweight women? It's a win for both if they're both love starved.
I see that too. It'll be cheaper and easier to fvck other guys wife's.I never could understand this. At least, before the red pill awareness. Even a couple years in the trenches of pickup, I had cognitive dissonance. What I had believed and was taught collided with the reality I was experiencing. I started pickup seeking a wife long term after having been forged through the fire. Its a lost cause in the west especially with given laws, child custody, and divorce rape. Its a red pill to swallow finding married women easier to bed (they do the propositioning) then ladies night at a local bar. Its pretty telling.
I would rather be alone then a fat wife, plow horse life, cut off from sex, and or divorce rape. I get why men would do escorts.