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Epidemic of Guys Dating Fat Women

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You've heard the phrase all of the good ones are taken? There is some truth to that. Especially in suburbs or communities not connected to the major metro areas. Just about all of the hot women are married by 25 in these areas. Many of the hottest girls are already dating men over 20 when they are still in their teens. These girls are pulled out of the market very quickly.

So what does that leave? Almost all of the women remaining are either a) fat, b) old, c) ugly, d) single moms, e) disabled, or have some other 'strike' against them. Obviously, many of these women have multiple strikes against them.

MOST of my male friends who are 25+ are dating overweight women. Or a woman with at least one 'strike' against them. I would say it's around 80% or higher. Even if the gal doesn't start out fat, she often becomes fat during the time she is dating one of my friends. It's certainly not unusual for a woman to get married, have several kids, then gain a lot of weight in her 30's and 40's. I don't see how her husband would be happy in such situations, but staying with her is probably preferable to losing everything he's ever worked for: his house, his kids, and half of his past, present and future income.

My last two girlfriends were awesome and I never went for 'the hottest girl' mainly because I attended elite universities which had more nerdy, cute girls than daisy duke blondes. But these girls had normal, fit bodies. Now that I'm no longer in school (aside from maybe a random night class for fun), I can see why my friends are dating fatties. These are the girls who turn up in our social circles.

I think the pool of hot girls is large enough in large metro areas to make dating viable through your 20's and even after, but it's frightening how bad it is in other areas.

When did American women become so fvcking fat? This is really frightening. I think the only solution is to live in a large city if you are single.
 

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You've heard the phrase all of the good ones are taken? There is some truth to that. Especially in suburbs or communities not connected to the major metro areas. Just about all of the hot women are married by 25 in these areas. Many of the hottest girls are already dating men over 20 when they are still in their teens. These girls are pulled out of the market very quickly.

So what does that leave? Almost all of the women remaining are either a) fat, b) old, c) ugly, d) single moms, e) disabled, or have some other 'strike' against them. Obviously, many of these women have multiple strikes against them.

MOST of my male friends who are 25+ are dating overweight women. Or a woman with at least one 'strike' against them. I would say it's around 80% or higher. Even if the gal doesn't start out fat, she often becomes fat during the time she is dating one of my friends. It's certainly not unusual for a woman to get married, have several kids, then gain a lot of weight in her 30's and 40's. I don't see how her husband would be happy in such situations, but staying with her is probably preferable to losing everything he's ever worked for: his house, his kids, and half of his past, present and future income.

My last two girlfriends were awesome and I never went for 'the hottest girl' mainly because I attended elite universities which had more nerdy, cute girls than daisy duke blondes. But these girls had normal, fit bodies. Now that I'm no longer in school (aside from maybe a random night class for fun), I can see why my friends are dating fatties. These are the girls who turn up in our social circles.

I think the pool of hot girls is large enough in large metro areas to make dating viable through your 20's and even after, but it's frightening how bad it is in other areas.

When did American women become so fvcking fat? This is really frightening. I think the only solution is to live in a large city if you are single.
I see a lot of fit guys with slobs. Its a promo to amplify fatties. Attack skinny and got girls. Its ridiculous since women get bigger. Not smaller.
 

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The only solution, is not giving a fukk.

Fatties usually have 'big fat attitudes' as well.
 

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I see a lot of fit guys with slobs. Its a promo to amplify fatties. Attack skinny and got girls. Its ridiculous since women get bigger. Not smaller.
Men eventually give up and settle. Or, they marry a hot woman and then spawn a few kids and then she gives up her figure. It's a zero sum game. You can fix a face with make-up and sh!t. However, keeping a body in decent shape just requires some control on what you feed yourself and some exercise. It's not that hard. If I can go from 325 LBS to 164 LBS, there is NO REASON why a woman cannot lose and keep off baby weight.
 

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If I can’t have a ONS with a fattie, what makes you think I’ll date one?

Lol those guys are screwed in the head.
 

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One other category.

f) Intellectual/science girls (first year students don't count lol). The hypergamey is strong so many guys fail.

Biology types are generally the most fun type of book worm, I know a few of them. They're generally repelled by dumb guys and really don't like emotional/needy males. Most engineering girls have dry af personalities, blehh.

I hooked up with a chubby girl once when I was completely out of my stone on alcohol. I took a year off drinking from the regret lmao.
 

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Insecurity and/or pressure to settle down. I know way too many guys who have done this.
 

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Keeping in mind that a man will spend 80% of his wealth for women, I would rather spend it on top escorts than fornitures, presents and travels for a fat wife.

Once you get yourself free from the "validation scam", the world will look much more simple.
 

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I see it often... lack of options... desperation. Heck, a huge chunk (pun intended) are on OLD going out on dates. I don't know if the 6-10s are just picky af and just want a Chad or no dudes at all... or the fit ones are just too busy with orbiters in real life to even care about the random guy hitting them up for dates.

Overweight women have just what many single AFCs need/want: availability and readiness. Less hoops to jump through overall...
 

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Men eventually give up and settle. Or, they marry a hot woman and then spawn a few kids and then she gives up her figure. It's a zero sum game. You can fix a face with make-up and sh!t. However, keeping a body in decent shape just requires some control on what you feed yourself and some exercise. It's not that hard. If I can go from 325 LBS to 164 LBS, there is NO REASON why a woman cannot lose and keep off baby weight.
But you're supposed to love her regardless of her being a slob. If you lose your job or she thinks she can do better, better as in aesthetics, genetic predisposition, resources, lifestyle, game, etc it is her purgative.

I hear women rage about men especially older men banging hawttt young girls. Say Leonardo Decaprio for example. Average age dated is on the Early side not later side of twenty. The oldest being 25. Leo is 43.

I am not Leo. I have been propositioned by older women but women as young as 18/19. Needless to say, guess which I pick?

Women trade up. If a woman is a ****ty person, men can trade up. Islam gets it right lol
 

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But you're supposed to love her regardless of her being a slob. If you lose your job or she thinks she can do better, better as in aesthetics, genetic predisposition, resources, lifestyle, game, etc it is her purgative.

I hear women rage about men especially older men banging hawttt young girls. Say Leonardo Decaprio for example. Average age dated is on the Early side not later side of twenty. The oldest being 25. Leo is 43.

I am not Leo. I have been propositioned by older women but women as young as 18/19. Needless to say, guess which I pick?

Women trade up. If a woman is a ****ty person, men can trade up. Islam gets it right lol
I always go with the following saying these days. You do you first and you'll be just fine.
 

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If I can’t have a ONS with a fattie, what makes you think I’ll date one?

Lol those guys are screwed in the head.
Problem is.. They are getting FATTER. Do you know the average size of a woman is size 12? It was a 4 in the 60s. To be fair, men have been getting fatter as well. It's disgusting. Not only do we have to look at these people and smell them, but they are the reasons why health care is so damn expensive in America. Now, if someone has a real unpreventable medical condition, that is one thing. However, diabetes, HBP, LBP, HCL, LCL, etc. can all be avoided. This is not rocket science.
 

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If I can’t have a ONS with a fattie, what makes you think I’ll date one?

Lol those guys are screwed in the head.
I tried having a ONS with one a few months back.

Couldn't do it. She was panting before I even went in, I had trouble finding literally everything, positions were difficult, and I was struggling to even stay hard.

It was disgusting. I felt disgusted and I just got up and left. It's not like she could run after me.
 

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no offence guys but in europe we always thought of america as of HAMerica with fat people only lol regardless if its true or not, thats one of first 3 things person here thinks when he hears or talks about America
 

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I see it often... lack of options... desperation. Heck, a huge chunk (pun intended) are on OLD going out on dates. I don't know if the 6-10s are just picky af and just want a Chad or no dudes at all... or the fit ones are just too busy with orbiters in real life to even care about the random guy hitting them up for dates.

Overweight women have just what many single AFCs need/want: availability and readiness. Less hoops to jump through overall...
At what cost?
 

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I tried having a ONS with one a few months back.

Couldn't do it. She was panting before I even went in, I had trouble finding literally everything, positions were difficult, and I was struggling to even stay hard.

It was disgusting. I felt disgusted and I just got up and left. It's not like she could run after me.
I sincerely hope this was an experimental stage in your life and never to be repeated again.

Fuvking a fattie will kill something inside a man, slowly but surely it kills some part of you.
 
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