"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Entering a Goldmine tomorrow, need advice!

G Rambo34

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so tomorrow evening/night, iam meeting up with some friends from another town and we are going to their high schools' homecoming game. this is a big high school, with all types of girls. now mind you these guys that iam hanging out with are not the best with girls, so i felt i needed to consult with the board for soild advice.
first, lets map it out. obviously its a big game. theres a social aspect invovled, just the word homecoming alone makes everyone happy. then consider that ill be the out of town kid on the home team sidelines in the stands. ill be standing with all the student body from the home team, where my boys go to school. i Obviously WANT to meet girls tomorrow night, otherwise i wouldnt be posting, but im not sure what my strategy will or should be.

Thats why i need the expert help provided on this board. since im not familiar with anybody, do you think it will be harder to socialize with the girls? what would be some good conversation starters? recently ive been learning the keys to eye contact, so i have that part pretty much down. but the PROBLEM i face now is this: once you walk into the stadium,field, w/e you want to call it, you only have a short 30 seconds or min before you walk up into the stands, which is where i will be the whole night. would it be wise to just go about talking to random girls i see? obviously who i stand next to the whole night cannot really be changed.

im pretty sure you guys can get a good image what the situation will look like tomorrow. considering all the circumstances, what would you do? thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IN A CROWD U DEFINETLY WANT TO PEA-C OCK..........standing OUT reels 'em IN....so how can u do this.........

COSTUME, AIRHORN, SUPERFAN, BASICALLY ANTHING THAT DRAWS ATTENTION TO YOUR AREA.

NUFF SAID..................now gimme an B.........gimme a Y.........gimme an E.
 

BlakeW5

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It shouldn't be any harder. Highschool girls always seem to like "the new guy". You'll be something different. Novelty alone should help you out. Back when I was in highschool no one (young) sat it the stands. The stands were for old people and parents. All the kids congregated around the field and mingled. Have your friends introduce you to people. They may not be good with the girls, but perhaps they'll introduce you to someone who is, and thus knows alot of the girls.
 
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