“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's been a while but I'm gonna update this. I've just got back from an over indulgent holiday & want to change things! My life is changing in general & I want the gym to be a big part of my life again moving forward.

I haven't been to the gym in around 3-4 months after I pulled my back deadlifting. My neck is always sore and my back aches. I play football and go jogging so cardio isn't too much of an issue. Diet is an issue & it is something I'm going to address.

I'm going to start off with 3 x 10 on resistance machines to build up some strength as well as yoga.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So I went to the chiropractor today. He said my back is extremely tense and needs a 6 week intense course of treatment to get me right.

He advised me that doing chest, back & shoulders in the gym is a no, no for now!

He said I could do cardio, squats & yoga for now!

I need to take things slow & build myself up gradually. I have a tendency to subscribe to 'all or nothing' thinking, which I can't do for now or i'll end up back where I am now.
 

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I need to change my relationship with food. I comfort eat a lot. I love the gym but I've fell into the bad habit of prioritising other things over it.

I have been stressed for a long time & I think this has caused the back problems.

I am about 170lbs at 20% right now, which isn't good at all!

I am 25 & entering a new phase in my life. I am building a solid business & have moved on from the vast majority of my high school friends.

Truthfully it has been this way for a while, I've just stayed in between my new life & old one. It's relevant because it's causing me stress!

I am going to make a commitment to myself right now:

I will hit the gym at least 3 times a week
I will cut bad food out of my diet.
I will jog 4-5 mornings a week.
I will start training at American football again.

If I do the above every week, I'll be fine.
 

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For the past 12 days I've eaten well & cut down my sugar consumption drastically. I feel tonnes better and my stomach is now flat again.

I haven't made it to the gym much, having only been once in the past 2 weeks, but I have been jogging and going to the chiropractor!

American football is probably going to be a new year thing, which I'm looking forward too.

On the whole I feel a lot better, which is great. I am a lot less stressed which I think is half the battle.

I am actually planning & building for the future, which is great!
 
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