"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Enormous oneitis-blocks

anonymous12345

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There is this HB that I want to be validated by, she’s busy, and I find it humiliating to settle for the left overs, to the degree I’m indifferent to them.

That’s a trait of me, I seem to be extremely monogamous and oneitis-ish. Have been my whole life. I don’t simp behaviourally, know the perishes of it and how destructive it is for me (Tomassi, etc). But mentally I get blocked by these oneitises, and I of course don’t manage to land them either, most likely because of this.

What to do?

My answer is that the problem is that I want to be validated by these “princesses”, it’s a self-esteem issue.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If ur one-itis rejects u, find a better, hotter, younger one-intis. She will probably reject u too, but if you keep this up, eventually u just might land something special.
 
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