"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Enlisting in military tomorrow

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It's a rite of passage for every male in my country. Well that day has finally come for me, feeling bittersweet at the moment. Excited to start life in camp but sad to leave my family. 3 weeks to my first bookout, until then see you guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're pretty dumb.


In a time of war you'll be a hero, right now you are just dumb. Because there is no Al Qaida, and CIA is behind all the terror threats. Good luck in Gestapo army. If you lucky you'll come back all safe or just die, if you're not, you'll loose a limb and live for the rest of your life as a freak.
 

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^^Oh, you must be speaking from 13-14 years of service. Continue to enlighten us with your tactical cowardice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cowardice is to serve a banker dictatorship and bring "democracy" to oil rich nations across the ocean.

Cowardice is to not know the truth and go with the crowd, because it's popular.

Cowardice is to accept official 9/11 theory without questioning the facts.

Cowardice is to act like a coward in the face of tyranny.
 

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Backseatjuan... Did you just now watch a clip of Alex Jones? You seemed so fired up on talking about cia etc.. Dude we all know about that ****, so calm down. Now, you are foolish to tell me that Im an idiot for joining the military or for anyone else to do so.

Get YOUR **** together first before talking crap on others. We all have different reasons for joining the military.
 

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The guy left for military conscription it was not his choice to ,he has no merits or faults.
 

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Good luck man. Thank you for contributing to my safety.
 

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PRMoon said:
Good luck man. Thank you for contributing to my safety.
The national guard contributes to your safety.

As brave as the soldiers in the Middle East are, they are not in anyway shape or form contributing to your safety.

In fact they found that the conflicts in the MiddleEast since the Iraqi War have only been spreading gun trafficking and drug trafficking to the neighboring countries like Turkey our NATO ally.

Or turning 50% of all kids in Iraq into orphans. Want to guess which nation they will grow up hating for all their suffering and despair? That's a rhetorical question its Ammericuhhh.

Fact is non of the Middle East conflicts contribute to America's safety or the safety of American citizens.

We just shake hands with their leaders, and when we have an agenda to implement in their country we dispose of their same leaders and torture their people. To top it off we leave a worse government in place than the one we disposed out of pretend friendship.

http://i1.tribune.com.pk/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/qaddafi-obama-REUTERS-640x480.jpg

I wonder why the news doesn't cover the fact that the Libyan government became even more Islamicized and radical after Western intervention.

And then when Americans and Europeans just can't get any stupider they start complaining about the influx of Muslim people into their countries and spewing racist sh!t. I wonder if razing their country's infrastructure, murdering their people and economically strangholding muslim nations is why they are coming over to western nations in boats. :rolleyes:

But of course the army is protecting the people and making us safe! How dare you speak against our army like that!!!!!!2!!!!!11!!!1!!1!1!!1!!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRMoon said:
Good luck man. Thank you for contributing to my safety.
Its not about defend the safety of someone at home, its about risk your life to make rich people even richer through invading and humbling third world countries who rejected foreign domination.
Its not different than the noisy guy who support the school bully while he punch innocent kids on the ground.

There were no mass destruction weapons in iraq, only oil and space to place other facilities, those there are defending jack and sh1t and jack left town after the news of the invented weapons spread.

You either know that and you are a bastard to go there and kill people or you are simply stupid and ignorant to dont even question what you are doing and why.

Put in your dumbass heads that not everybody wants to leave under american rules, be told what to do and think and be forced to obey from a culture that goes against nature and intelligence.

A family man from Iraq had much more respect from his wife and society before you fvckers went there to "free" him, the only thing you bring there are cultural rubbish, consumism and fat women along with easy divorce and cult of money.
Dear american troops do us a favour and get the fvck back from where u came from, we dont want you or the way of living you bring in the world.

If someone really wants his family to be safe, he better get a gun and patrol schools for pushers or gas stations for car hijackers.
 

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the military is of no benefit until you are old and decripit, veteran's hospitals, etc. There won't be any USA by the time 20 year olds are 65. In fact, there won't be any for 40 year olds. This guy doesn't sound like he's in the USA, dudes.
 

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don't said:
This guy doesn't sound like he's in the USA, dudes.
This. The military is not a right of passage in the US.
In other countries, military training is obligatory and it's just that: training. No war. Then you go home as reserve.
Me thinks it's a good practice because it beats out the puszy side out of men.
 

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It's awesome to have these 20 somethings who have the world so figured and clearly host the solutions. Thank you guys for fixing the world via internet pick up site forum. Your contribution to the betterment of humanity has been noted. Good job, mission accomplished.
 

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Age is irrelevant in many situations (eg: one either thinks or is a sheep). Stop using it as a qualifier.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tactical Cowardice is to post on internet forums about how you eat hot dogs, drink cheap beer and masturbate to anti-flag in a backseat.
 

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Nothing about my military service, per se, made any more of a man of me. It did put me in the position of paying for my karate training myself, in Korea, and coincidentally, gave me a safe haven while I did some growing up.
 

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3 weeks flew by... I don't know how much I've changed but I find myself appreciating the life of a civillian. Definitely been a tough 3 weeks but nonetheless enjoyable. It has done wonders for my mental strength, but the biggest challenge has yet to come.
 

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the military was a bad joke to me. The only thing it did for me was make me eligible for GI bill help with college, which was not an inconsiderable help.
 
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