Enlighten me, please!

[Royal-tiger]

Hello folks!

I have been seeing a 43-year old woman for just about four months. She is a wonderful woman by nature with 7.5 (or so) looks. She proclaims herself as a “hippie” and very liberal. Frankly I admire these qualities in her except the fact that she always dresses very casually upto the point that her hair is all unstyled. On occasions, she will attend herself but it is quite infrequent.

I am a guy who loves women who are attractive and take care of themselves in terms of fashion and presentation.

The factors mentioned above have put me in a position where I don’t feel anything for her whereas she, by her own admission, is heading toward falling in love with me.

What is the best path to follow: Should I wait and see if I feel like her or call it quits? I must reiterate that she is one genuine and fine woman.

Peace!


P.S.: You can access her picture here.

 

[chicksrock]

I am only 21 but i may have some useful advice for you.

see how much you value "sexual attraction".... see how important it is for you in a relationship..... if you feel you can get better then go for it.....if you think that this woman is an overal gem of a person then keep her....

also if she was to dress more nicely would she meet the "sexual attraction" element?....
encourage her to dress nicely then...DON'T BE BLATANT offcourse...just take her out to a formal place where she has to dress up...and tell her she looks ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS when she dresses like that ...and subtly make hints like that !

good luck!

 

[Royal-tiger]

Dr

chicksrock,

Your advice is worthy. However, she is well aware of the fact that I like well dressed women but her position is she prefers casual attire. As regards sexual attraction, it is not very intense (from my side) partly because of the dress factor and partly because I don't think she is that great in bed.

Frankly I feel like moving onto a hotter fish but this is the first time I am hesitating in letting her go due to her superb nature.

 

[OldNumb3r7]

Sounds like the doubt is already creeping into your mind. If something better comes along Id go for it. If shes not upto your standards man......dont bother. Its your world.

 

[Royal-tiger]

Called it quits with mutual acceptance. She is also well aware of our differences. Regardless of duration it is painful. Sometimes we don't realize how someone's familiarty sinks in and we feel amiss when it is gone!

Now let us see what is in store next.

 

[chicksrock]

good on you
get out there and pimp some chicks