"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Enlighten Me On Body Language

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So I've heard about how this really effects your game but I never really looked into it. But anyway I was watching an episode of the Pick Up Artist I DVR'ed and it was the one where they have to wear Speedo's to the poll party. So I'm watching and I notice Mystery comment on Joe D's positioning and body language sitting in the center of the poll with slouched shoulders looking really comfortable and I realized I do this all the time. So yeah I want to know more about body language. On another note this one girl in my Biology class keeps saying that when I try to act hard too much. But the thing is I don't talk like that or really act like and I thought maybe it had something to do with my body language, dunno?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stacks Of Terror

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Been through the DJ bible quite a few time. The info about body language in there is really basic. I want more in depth stuff.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Download and read "How to Be an Alpha Male" by John Alexander.

Everything you need's in there.
 
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