“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ENJOY WHAT YOU GOT! (thoughts on life)

rapsta

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I was visiting my mom in the hospital yesterday because she's getting her hip operated, and i saw alot of disfunctional people, alot of old people, young people, dying people, etc. And some thoughts struck me quickly, then i got home, laid on my bed and just chilled out and did some thinking. and I thought I'll share my thoughts with you all, they might be motivating.

See I broke up with my girlfriend so i've been thinking alot lately. Been thinking of life, who am I? why am I here? what is life all about to me? what do I want from life? I've been depressed every then and now since we broke up, and still am.
There are people who start feeling sorry for themselves after losing someone you loved, and some might start drinking, smoking, or doing bad things that they usually wouldn't do.
But why would you wanna do that? Feels easier? Only pvssies take the easy way out. Accept your loss, that's life. EVERYTHING comes and goes. NOTHING is forever, especially not your own life.
Cmon man, it could be worse. No you don't have anyone to cuddle with while watching movies. No you don't have anyone to share your life with. No you don't have anyone to listen to music to. No you don't have anyone to "make love" to. No you don't have anyone to wake up next to you in the morning. But you were feeling good back then. And now you might be feeling like real SHYYYYYYYT, like your world is going under (back to this later).
But as I said, you we're feeling good back then. And that's exactly how everything in life is. Get used to it. Because that's how it's always gonna be. It's like when you're on a vacation on a hot summer. Feels really good to drink and party with your friends and fvck hot girls huh? But the next thing you know, you're back in your office working. Remember how good u felt back then? it didn't last forever, but still you did it.
Well your girl didn't last forever either, but it fell hella good when you was with her huh? Get used to it man. Things come and go. You better be prepared for it or it will strike you hard.

So what I'm saying is.. ENJOY WHAT YOU GOT. Make the fvcking best of it! Atleast you've got LIFE right now. Some don't. Atleast you can run, you can lift weights, you can practice sports, you can get women, SOME CAN'T! Some are in a wheelchair, some are born with disfunctions, some are blind, some are deaf, some are poor.. living in a dumpster, some are in jail, some are...... unborn.
Well man.. you are sitting in front of a COMPUTER, that means you've got a HOUSE, you can READ, you can get WOMEN. I was thinking.. why don't we make the best of it all instead of doing it half-hearted? One day we're all gonna die anyway. We never know when that day is. We've got all resources man. We've got everything man, don't you see the benefits of that? We can do WHATEVER. Have you read "Think and grow rich"? It's all about DESIRE. You find out what you wanna do and put your whole heart behind it. DESIRE TO MAKE THE BEST OF IT!
Are you practicing football? boxing? running? We'll you CAN be the best. You don't need to be born with talent. Fvck that bullshyt about talent. You wanna be a pro boxer? We'll why don't you? You've got the resources? If you wan't it bad enough, why not put your whole LIFE to it? What else are u gonna do? sit behind your computer screen drinking milk letting every day pass by? What if you die faster for the sake of putting your whole life to your desire? Yeah well.. atleast you died when trying to make the best of it! but what if you die going with the flow of life, letting every day pass by not thinking about what u wanna achieve in life, living on the painful way, the way of not having to struggle for anything? Wouldn't that be even worse if you really think about it? Ending life that way.. without having done anything? Isn't that actually worse?
You see man? We've got life.. and we CAN make the best of it.. so why not do it? I mean.. atleast YOU who start taking drugs because your life is shyt for the moment.. those drugs are gonna kill you. But life isn't worth anythin to you right now is it? Well if it's not.. what good will drugs do? If its not.. why don't you take a big risk in life, instead? you can do something. PUT YOUR WHOLE LIFE BEHIND IT, IF YOU ARE FEELING YOUR LIFE ISNT WORTH ANYTHING RIGHT NOW. Atleast then, you have done something to be remembered for. Nobody is gonna remember you for laying on the street stinking alcohol.

So fellas.. is life hard? is life being a bytch for the moment huh? Well it wasn't supposed to be easy. You only got used to easy.
As I was saying, don't take anything for granted, because nothing is forever. NOTHING. Always have in the back of your mind - that preparedness.

And remember, we've fvcking got it all man. Use the resources. Not all have them. WE HAVE THEM! Why? because we were given them. Why? TO DO SOMETHING IMPORTANT IN THIS WORLD, NOT TO SIT AND PLAY VIDEOGAMES BECAUSE WE'RE TO LAZY TO FILL OUT AN EMPLOYEE APPLICATION FORM.
And guess what? your sorry ass is not gonna take forever to get started in life.. you are gonna start today.. even if you're not ready!
 

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rapsta-

Man I know exactly how you feel, my cousin died last month and my grandpa is in the hospital - I felt awful, I was depressed, but one day I decided to make my life better, live way happier. The thing is, that it really is not that hard to be happy, you just have to realize that doing things make you feel better, whether it is working out, hanging out with some friends, or asking that girl out, DOING things make you feel better. Also somthing that goes hand in hand with doing things is LEARNING, never stop learning always know that there is somthing that can be learned in any situation-take advantage of it. We do not have that long to live, so we should all try our best to live the best we can, lately I have been getting compliments from al sorts of people about my attitude/personality because I have begun to care and it feels great. By making myself more cheerful and excited to live (even in class at school) I make people around me happy. I strongly reccomend it, it makes for a better experience, because that is all we will have on this earth, experiences. So get back to DOING+LEARNING=EXPERIENCING life, to mak it better for everyone, but I garuntee you will reep the most benefits. My cousin will never be able to do anything again, and my gramps is well on his way to losing it all, so I always remember my new moto "Live LIke You Were Dying" (Tim McGraw)


Get out there and DO LEARN!

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hell yeah I totally know what you mean by enjoying what you got, like an ounce of dank ass weed because some people don't even have access to high grade weed or even have the cash to buy it.
 
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