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English words I hate

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I don't know why.... But whenever I see the word Bistro in a resturant I won't go in. That and Java have to be the most overused words in the English Language. A Bistro is a small resturant that serves small simple foods.. not a 1,000 seat, generic all you can eat chinese resturant (PF Chang) and moderately priced my black ass. Because you "have to have" the srimp dumplings (and you really do.. they are addictive), and the lettace wraps and the bartender is making a hell of a Daquari.. order 5of them!!! And we hvaen't even gotten to the meal yet and I've already got a 70 dollar tab.

bring on the srimp friend rice and the general cho chicken with 2 extra egg rolls. and that's my plate... not including the fattest desert I can find... yeah... you are eyeing a 200 dollar tab. Easily. **** I alone can rack up a 100 dollar tab If I'm not careful.. although I like PF Changs.. it's not a Bistro
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pf chang has the best tofu I've ever had. Even raw, it tasted like smoked cheese. And you can get it at any Chinese place that serves beer, but Tsing Tao beer is excellent. They make it with spring water from Laoshan, an area known for fine water.
 

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backbreaker said:
I don't know why.... But whenever I see the word Bistro in a resturant I won't go in. ...
Pssstttt.... Bistro is French, not English....
Go ahead, go in and have a croissant, errrr Crescent. ;)
 

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I don't give a damn if it was alien. lol, the food isn't even really chinese food. it's like the mcdonalds of chinese resturants.. I just like the atomsphere more than anything... go to PF changs on a Friday night.. better than going ot a club.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
pf chang has the best tofu I've ever had. Even raw, it tasted like smoked cheese. And you can get it at any Chinese place that serves beer, but Tsing Tao beer is excellent. They make it with spring water from Laoshan, an area known for fine water.
Is that supposed to be sarcasm?

Damn, even if you say yes I will never know.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The word I hate more than any other in the english language is "diva".

I want to burn it with fire!
 

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Makaybe Diva

On that note, Oujia has to be the sweetest word in the English lnaguage.. just look at it.
 

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WTF! you hate the word java? That is ridiculous! Java is one of my favorite words. It reminds me of star wars and starbucks at the same time. And there's nothing better than star wars and starbucks. Especially at the same time.

Seriously that is just ridiculous. Were you beaten as a child or something backbreaker?

God... that's just disgusting... honestly how can you hate the word java? How is that possible? You're just kidding right?
 

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No way it's gotta be Vente.

It's Large, Medium, and Small u pretentious flamingly homosexual dimwits. :trouble:
 

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Play the Game said:
No way it's gotta be Vente.

It's Large, Medium, and Small u pretentious flamingly homosexual dimwits. :trouble:
When they charge you for your 'vente' give them the money and say 'okay that's two dactaris and sixty floobs. Can you change a spoinkle? Etc.'
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't like it when people say "beverage"
 

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hip, I like the word hip.
 

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Alright, my pet peeve is the term "fine dining." A woman basically disqualifies herself with me if she lists fine dining as one of her hobbies. I'm like "Look chick, some of us enjoy eating crap; thank you very much!!!"
 

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Some words are easier to pronounce incorrectly, so that's what people do. The word often pronounced "mid-evil" is actually pronounced med-i-evil, but the middle syllable is awkward, so most people leave it out. I had a history prof who b!tched about that. Also, the last H in neanderthal is not pronounced. Nee-an-der-tal is correct.

Even funnnier, in the old Latin, the V was pronounced as a W. So the famous "vini, vidi, vici" is correctly pronounced "winnie, widdie, wickie," which sounds kind of silly nowadays.
 

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Oh yeah, there's "irregardless" too. People I have to tell you, IT'S NOT REALLY A WORD!!! Are you trying to say irrespective or regardless? Pick one or the other!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, ok, ok... One last one and I'm done....

WHAT THE FVCK IS "PROLLY????!!!" What are you saying, "Prolly want a cracka'!!!" you illiterate fu.... Oh... It's time for my medication, gotta go....
 

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bible and christian really tug my chain.
 

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bible and christian really tug my chain.
Alright, I'd like to extend that last one and add "God Fearing." Let it be know that I have no issues with the word religion (unless it's preceded with the word organized :p).
 

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backbreaker said:
I don't know why.... But whenever I see the word Bistro in a resturant I won't go in. That and Java have to be the most overused words in the English Language. A Bistro is a small resturant that serves small simple foods.. not a 1,000 seat, generic all you can eat chinese resturant (PF Chang) and moderately priced my black ass. Because you "have to have" the srimp dumplings (and you really do.. they are addictive), and the lettace wraps and the bartender is making a hell of a Daquari.. order 5of them!!! And we hvaen't even gotten to the meal yet and I've already got a 70 dollar tab.

bring on the srimp friend rice and the general cho chicken with 2 extra egg rolls. and that's my plate... not including the fattest desert I can find... yeah... you are eyeing a 200 dollar tab. Easily. **** I alone can rack up a 100 dollar tab If I'm not careful.. although I like PF Changs.. it's not a Bistro
Ok on some of this maybe I misunderstood, so you can correct me where I did:

>PF Chang's isn't all-you-can-eat. It isn't here in The Rock, anyway.
>I don't see "Bistro" in the name. Its PF Chang's. In any event, ours has maybe 150 seats, certainly not 1000.
>Haven't tried the dumplings yet, but I will since you recommended them.
>I'm amazed you can even finish their full-sized, large portion plates, let alone appetizers, multiple alcoholic drinks, extra egg rolls, and desserts on top of that!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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