"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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English help?

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Hi guys,

I'm reading the novella "All You Zombies" by Robert A. Heinlein. But since English is not my mother tongue, I encountered very early on one obstacle as followed:

"The Unmarried Mother was a man twenty–five years old, no taller than I am, childish features and a touchy
temper. I didn’t like his looks—I never had—but he was a lad I was here to recruit, he was my boy. I gave him
my best barkeep’s smile.

Maybe I’m too critical. He wasn’t swish; his nickname came from what he always said when some nosy type
asked him his line: “I’m an unmarried mother.” If he felt less than murderous he would add: “at four cents a
word. I write confession stories.
”

=> I didn't get the bolded part. What does the word "line" here mean?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Improper English. It should have read "when some nosy type asked him about his line". Line being "I'm an unmarried mother". (I think).
 

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Improper English. It should have read "when some nosy type asked him about his line". Line being "I'm an unmarried mother". (I think).
Thank you, sir. I copied it from my PDF file btw.

So, can I paraphrase it like this? => This guy's nickname (The Unmarried Mother) came from his catchphrase everytime somebody asks him about his line, which is also The Unmarried Mother?

Is it correct? But if it is, it makes little sense to me.
 

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line of work=it's like a type of slang english

barkeep asked him what was his job, his occupation, his 'line' of work

Example: if you worked at the Amazo n warehouse and I asked you "what's your line, manfrombelow?"
you would answer "distribution"

I could be wrong.

But in the example you gave, it seems like the guy is pretending to be a female writer, an unmarried mother, getting 4 cents a word writing confession stories.

He probably resents being asked what he does for a living and so always says something ridiculous to divert the nosy question.

A lot of Irish, Scottish, English manner of speaking is like this.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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line of work=it's like a type of slang english

barkeep asked him what was his job, his occupation, his 'line' of work
That's how I read it.
 
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