suaveplayer
Don Juan
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ok this is from personal example:
i know this really popular guy at school. when i used to sit next to him in class, i was really shy, thinking that theres no way that popular people would want to connect with me. Well this is what he did. everytime the teacher says something remotely funny he would laugh and turn to look at me. by actively engaging me, he really made me feel more comfortable, and now i am close friends with him.
lessons to be learned:
-there is a reason i call him the master connecter. turning to look at ur neighbor and sharing a laugh with him/her is really powerful stuff
-be positive and dont be scared to initiate with strangers. dont be like what i was where i ruled out a possibility of a friendship immediately (shy ppl are like that). dont make assumptions like that.
i know this really popular guy at school. when i used to sit next to him in class, i was really shy, thinking that theres no way that popular people would want to connect with me. Well this is what he did. everytime the teacher says something remotely funny he would laugh and turn to look at me. by actively engaging me, he really made me feel more comfortable, and now i am close friends with him.
lessons to be learned:
-there is a reason i call him the master connecter. turning to look at ur neighbor and sharing a laugh with him/her is really powerful stuff
-be positive and dont be scared to initiate with strangers. dont be like what i was where i ruled out a possibility of a friendship immediately (shy ppl are like that). dont make assumptions like that.