Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Engaged Girl spends night w/ me to "make sure he is the one"

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Engaged Girl spends night w/ me to "make sure he is the one"

So... I dated and had sex with this girl like 2 years ago. She sort of got obsessed with me and I dropped her. She'd text me and try to add me on myspace... etc... I'd ignore her most of the time... It took her a few months but she met some other guy and forgot about me. haha... Well 2 years later (a month ago) she sends me a myspace message... "Me and my fiance are having problems I want to stay the night with you to help me figure stuff out." I tried to object and told her something along the lines of, "I don't see how spending the night here will help you out... Besides I have a girlfriend of 10 months..." So I told her when I'd be free and my girlfriend wasn't in town. I never said come over... I just told her when I was free... So last night she knocks on my door... I was like HUH..... But hell I went with it and played with her head... Took me an hour to get back in her pants. We had sex and she was basically like, "you like my new tricks?" ................ Afterwards I just went to bed... When my alarm went off she was gone... Well she is back at her apartment with her boyfriend who she is getting married to in the next 6 months or so... She told me having sex with the same person for the past year 1/2 got so old...

If I was about to get married to a girl (wanted to spend the REST of my life with her...) and she had sex with some other guy I would just snap. In a way I felt nasty after I had sex with her last night... Like she is a tramp... It was just too easy... Don't get me wrong the sex was good during it. There was like no challenge... No build up... Afterwards, I seriously almost told her to get the f*ck out. I had to bite my tongue not to be an a$$ to her. I checked my myspace today and she said "Maybe I can come over again sometime." All I told her was Good luck with your problem... If she bugs me to come over I am going to just let her give me head and keep it at that.

Last Man Standing, I find my self agreeing with you that almost all American women are *****s...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So wait, you're disgusted with her for cheating on her boyfriend, when you just cheated on your girlfriend?
 

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i think he means in a commitment level of marrige, yea thats disgusting, as far as his gf, he's probably not lookin to spend the rest of his life wit her
 

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im sitting here wondering how it took an hour to seal the deal.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How it took an hour to seal the deal? :crackup:

Have you ever heard of something called foreplay????????????

Seriously dude google it...
 

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dude, there's not enough foreplay on earth to go on for an hour. it gets' old. I'm a big fan of foreplay... but shoot.. 15-20 mintues.. I'd be done nutted on myself
 

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Scorched said:
We had sex and she was basically like, "you like my new tricks?" ................

Last Man Standing, I find my self agreeing with you that almost all American women are *****s...
Translation: So, you still like me, right? Ok, thanks for the validation, I needed that!

Soo...don't tell me this girl is another AW with a distant daddy? Are girls really getting this predictable now?

LMS was right on - it's too bad he got banned! FREE LMS!
 

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Okay so you talk about how horrible it is that she cheated on her fiancee yet you are the one that banged her and helped her do it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no she slept with you to prove you were or were not the one.
 

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you oughta call up her fiance and tell him what a hor this woman is. Then send him a link to this site. You'll be saving his life and his soul.
 

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Soupar said:
Okay so you talk about how horrible it is that she cheated on her fiancee yet you are the one that banged her and helped her do it.
Dude.... I didn't like TRY. I just flirted with her and made her laugh. I told her I was going to bed and she basically jumped under the covers... I don't feel guilty just a little nasty. What dude is going to turn down decent pus*y?
 

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She's a hor !!!! Pimp the hor !!!!!!!!!

And tell her fiance all about it.
 
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Scorched said:
Dude.... I didn't like TRY. I just flirted with her and made her laugh. I told her I was going to bed and she basically jumped under the covers... I don't feel guilty just a little nasty. What dude is going to turn down decent pus*y?
Inviting her into your home, or being in any isolated location with her is tantaumont of you cheating by providing the situation for it to happen.

What dude is going to turn down an opportunity for sex? I would, and many others on here would too, because we dont serve sex, we dont idolize sex like a god to the point we have no values or morals left.

How can you write a post like that and complain this girl is cheating when you provided the situation for it to happen in the first place by isolating her knowing she was interested in meeting you with 'sex' in the air and then claim that this girl is morally inferior to you and you are disgusted with her?

Why not admit the truth to yourself - you cheated on your gf, you used her and dumped her like a dirty rag and want to use her again - this has nothing to do with her cheating or lacking any morals, it's all about your putting your selfish interests above everyone else's - even putting the blame on someone else so you look good - disgusting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scorched you're as bad as her. Dating a girl for 10 months is still a fair amount of time. You also knew exactly what would happen if she called over. Its VERY rich to complain about cheating sluts when you yourself are one.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Inviting her into your home, or being in any isolated location with her is tantaumont of you cheating by providing the situation for it to happen.

What dude is going to turn down an opportunity for sex? I would, and many others on here would too, because we dont serve sex, we dont idolize sex like a god to the point we have no values or morals left.

How can you write a post like that and complain this girl is cheating when you provided the situation for it to happen in the first place by isolating her knowing she was interested in meeting you with 'sex' in the air and then claim that this girl is morally inferior to you and you are disgusted with her?

Why not admit the truth to yourself - you cheated on your gf, you used her and dumped her like a dirty rag and want to use her again - this has nothing to do with her cheating or lacking any morals, it's all about your putting your selfish interests above everyone else's - even putting the blame on someone else so you look good - disgusting.
vorbis said:
Scorched you're as bad as her. Dating a girl for 10 months is still a fair amount of time. You also knew exactly what would happen if she called over. Its VERY rich to complain about cheating sluts when you yourself are one.
:rolleyes: Agree! :down:
 

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What this proves to me is that what chicks consider ****ing material is way different to what they consider marriage material.

At least twice I've had married women flirt with me. I know it's not odd for a 20 year old to get attention from women in late 20's to early 30's but the fact that their married really strikes me.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Inviting her into your home, or being in any isolated location with her is tantaumont of you cheating by providing the situation for it to happen.

What dude is going to turn down an opportunity for sex? I would, and many others on here would too, because we dont serve sex, we dont idolize sex like a god to the point we have no values or morals left.

How can you write a post like that and complain this girl is cheating when you provided the situation for it to happen in the first place by isolating her knowing she was interested in meeting you with 'sex' in the air and then claim that this girl is morally inferior to you and you are disgusted with her?

Why not admit the truth to yourself - you cheated on your gf, you used her and dumped her like a dirty rag and want to use her again - this has nothing to do with her cheating or lacking any morals, it's all about your putting your selfish interests above everyone else's - even putting the blame on someone else so you look good - disgusting.
What the hell... I'm not the engagdged... She has tried on wedding dresses... And I never said I wasn't a male *****. I'm not the one getting married soon. Nah I wouldn't fvck her again. But I would get head from her. You wouldn't turn down sex unless it would be a negative impact on your social status. Talk is cheap man, be real, stop bsing .

Male *****/Mr Now not Mr Later - Outtttttttttttttttttttt!
 

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Scorched said:
What the hell... I'm not the engagdged... She has tried on wedding dresses... And I never said I wasn't a male *****. I'm not the one getting married soon. Nah I wouldn't fvck her again. But I would get head from her. You wouldn't turn down sex unless it would be a negative impact on your social status. Talk is cheap man, be real, stop bsing .

Male *****/Mr Now not Mr Later - Outtttttttttttttttttttt!
Actually I'll hit it again, slvts are for our entertainment... all this funny moralist are trying to put you down to justify their shortcomings with women.

Don't tell her man that you banged his goddess, you aren't Christ and should take up the role of saving AFCs. Bad judgment/luck is a contagious trait....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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