"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Energy" or coincidence

lizardking82

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Have you ever had this strange energy with someone? You notice it in little things. You come home at 4 am and 2 minutes later, your girlfriend writes you a text. Has anyone here had this happen on a regular basis with a woman? And if yes, do you think it is anything worth considering or just a bunch of coincidences?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Billtx49

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Have you ever had this strange energy with someone? You notice it in little things. You come home at 4 am and 2 minutes later, your girlfriend writes you a text. Has anyone here had this happen on a regular basis with a woman? And if yes, do you think it is anything worth considering or just a bunch of coincidences?
If she knows your usual schedule or routine behavior, it’s not a coincidence. Multiple times are not coincidental, those prove her intent.
Once or twice, over a period of time, is coincidental.
 
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taiyuu_otoko

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Pure randomness. Human mind is not anything nearly as logical as people like to believe and will see patterns where none exist.

(just don't tell any chicks this)
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I’ve had ‘love’ at first sight before. Although it wasn’t love, it was just a natural liking towards someone for absolutely no reason at all. Makes no sense to me. But then I find out later on that they had that same liking towards me. Funny thing actually. But I’ve only once had it with a girl in an intimate way. Most feminine girl I’ve ever seen in my life. And only saw her once. Strange feelings. I wonder if I’ll ever see her again :cry::cry::cry:

I vote energy. Most of the time it’s a coincidence, but sometimes it is this ‘energy’, and it happens more often than you think.
 
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