Energy levels!!!

[Lanceroni3]

My first post in the tips, here goes!

Energy Levels

No this isnt some weird connection to a video game! It's about your energy level. When you do that approach, or finally call the girl to ask her out, remember to be excited! I'm talking like super energetic!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (notice the exclamation marks after my sentences!)

It's ok to be dumb, weird, childish! When you raise your energy levels, you do several things:

1. You naturally relieve yourself of any anxiety you had before. You feel better about yourself.

2. You make her excited to hear you. When a baby slams its head into the coffee table, guess what? The baby first looks at the parents to see whether it should cry or laugh!

3. It makes the girl correlate positive feelings with you.

We all cant be energetic on queue. If it helps, call up someone you know who is super energetic and feed off of their energy! Then, try giving your girl a call. MMM delicious energy...

I'm sure this has been regurgetated over and over on the forums, but it's a tip, so damnit im posting it! Someone will read this.

Keep the energy high when approaching those ladies

 

[Night Owl]

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz :yawn:

 

[Mazeman11]

Try juggling a few balls and do a few clown tricks to impress her!

Sorry not trying to be negative, but you don't get anywhere putting on an act. Just act normal.

 

[Lanceroni3]

Never said you had to act all crazy. Acting ''normal'' is exactly what you shouldnt do. If acting normal was successful, you wouldnt be here on this site, trying to change who you are, am I right?

If you are already successful, then my bad...act ''normal'', but at least put in some tips to help us who arent successful. Like I said, I'm new to this forum, if you dont agree, tell me why.

 

[mcs]

well, my 'normal' is usually above common energy level, so it is normal and energetic.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I think this is a good tip as it hits it right on for me. If your energy level is low then it's not likely you are in that jovial type of spirit or mood where you are just having fun and don't care about the outcome that much. That's exactly the zone you want to be in.

Let's face it, if you are depressed, negative, or are angry then you are not in the best state of mind to do an approach or make a basic connection.

What has not been discussed is how to reach this energy level. Ideas to reach it would include going to an geographical area that is outside where you are used to, so that nobody knows you. Peacocking (wearing some costume) so you care free to be someone else you are not. Or, perhaps trying acting school. Point is to break out of yourself and have fun - then you have that healthy vibe going out.

 

[slaog]

What I do is force myself to be higher energy if I'm having a low energy day. Just by thinking positive can change it.

2. You make her excited to hear you. When a baby slams its head into the coffee table, guess what? The baby first looks at the parents to see whether it should cry or laugh!

Very true and I've seen this with my own nieces and nephews. One of them falls and somebody would come running over in a panic asking them are they all right and making a big deal generally. The child usually starts crying.

When it happens in front of me I just say opps silly and smile and the child will start laughing at his/her self. A good example of how your mood can change the mood of others.

Emotion is contagious as they say.

 

[Mr. Mystery II]

Good tip.

I have been recycling the same 3 women for the last 6 months that all know each other, because I work so much and don't have time for the other women that I meet. They all talk to each other about me and most of it (not all of it I'm sure) gets back to me.

The number one complaint they have about me is that I make them feel insecure because I'm not always excited to be around them. This isn't because I'm not into them, its just that I'm exhausted from working so much. If there is one thing I'm working on now, it is fighting through the exhaustion and trying harder to make the girl I'm with feel wanted.

Good tip. Showing a girl you want her is important.

Mr. Mystery

 

[thederekeffect1]

Being lively is a good quality, but that doesn't help anyone much. What you should be writing about is how to increase your liveliness.