"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Energy levels: In and out of the gym

Not Quite There

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Just started my first proper job, which requires a lot of concentration and hard work, problem is I am still in a lazy student mind set and timetable, going to bed late etc.

This job also has about a 1 hr 30 min total commute every day.

not surprisngly, my energy levels have dropped, i feel exhausted, was so tired on monday that my gym session was terrible. :down:

What foods can i eat to boost my energy? bareing in mind i am also trying to bulk up. Since starting i think i have lost a few pounds, because i'm just not getting the protein in the morning.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inc. ©

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I have also felt no energy for about a year now. I still work out, but I am not lifting as much and not too excited about going anymore. I am so lethargic. I don't know how to get my energy back. It starts when you get a lonely, sit-on-your-butt job. What to do?
 

AgonyUncle

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You need to look at your carb intake bud.

Concentrate on low GI carbs. Try and take in a balance of low GI carbs and protein with every meal. Eg: Brown rice, Oats, Oat Bran, Sweet potato, rye and wholewheat bread.

What this will do is give your body a steady release of sugar into the bloodstream, which keeps your energy levels up throughout the day.

The wrong carbs have the opposite effect. White rice, white bread, baked goods, chocolate and crisps...all spike your energy levels, but the sugar release is much quicker, and falls away quickly too. That really kills energy levels, more then a ketogenic (like atkins) type diet.

Get some oats in, or a decent serving of brown rice an hour in before your gym session. You will feel much better.
 
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Try to eat less processed carbs. If anything eat more meat and veggies (fresh veggies). I used to have the same problem and cutting down the carbs really helped. Try to cut out all the carbs you don't need. Stuff like white bread is okay if you're eating a food that can only be eaten with bread.

ie: sandwiches and most types of mexican food.

But when eating a normal meal, eat less fries, mashed potatoes, pasta, white rice (brown rice has a lower GI), etc. Don't cut out carbs completely though, just eat less . You could also take some herbal supplements to help out. I am currently using siberian ginger and found that I sleep a bit less and have more energy throughout the day.

Do some thorough reasearch before attempting to take any supplements. Certain herbs can become toxic if overused.
 

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I have this problem a lot, too. I've tried to counter it by tossing in a spoon full of instant coffee into my pre-workout shakes before I head to the gym.

Tastes like crap, but seems to work sometimes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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