I got a problem with lack of energy and enthusiasm during the school year. Last year the same thing happened and it seems to destroy all improvements i make over the summer. What happens is once i get into school i last about a week and then everything seems to break down and i basically become a zombie. I am forced to wake up at 5:20 so that i have time to catch my bus which takes a whole hour to get to school (we have litterally like 30 stops that are really out of the way). I've tried going to bed as early as 7:30 but that hasnt helped me much at all. How can i get more energy?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Energy Crisis
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Try going to sleep early (like you said you've tried) and wake up 30 mins BEFORE you normally do. This is so you can get yourself fully prepared and awake for school. What I do before school is do some pushups, situps, or barbell curls to get the blood/testosterone going. I also take a few minutes (if I have the time...) to mentally prepare myself by looking in the mirror and giving myself encouragement. I try to remember everything that I need to apply in my life, my goals, and how good of a person I already am. Try it.
Jippii
Don Juan
Lifting weights worked for me
shrewd
Don Juan
drink lots of water, get lots of sleep and cease jerking off for a week and you should have plenty of energy. Also what kind of foods do you eat? I find i'm alot lower on energy when i eat ****ty food like pizza and burgers too much.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you have tried all of this and are still feeling tired, then maybe it is all in your head. My advice for somebody that feels lethargic all the time is to actually get MORE busy. When I was in high school, I didn't really get much homework or have a job or anything, so I had too much spare time, and would usually fall asleep during the middle of the day. I have not fallen asleep in the middle of the day in the two years out of high school thanks to a more hectic schedule. Not only that, but I have NEVER felt lethargic either. I'm not saying that it is foolproof, but I bet if you had more going on in your life, you wouldn't need to sleep over ten hours a day. Hopefully nobody thinks I'm TOO crazy, as illogical as all of this sounds. laterz