"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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energy and hair

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Ok so i have hear in several ocasions that all of your energy is in your hair or something like that about enerygy and hair and how it affects it etc...

Some people cut all of their hair off and then they grow it again cause of this energy thing perfect example is Eryka badu, andre 3000.

Is this energy thing related with hair just a myth or is it true, cause i was thinking in cuttin mine, ive been growing it for like 2 1/2 yrs and in those yrs ive experienced a lot from depression, stress, etc... so i was just wondering about this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Never heard of it. There's also the Sampson myth where his lost all his power when he cut his hair so...

Waht I know is that shorter people look better with shorter hair. I know that much.
 

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i was just wondering i heard of it somewhere i forgar where
 
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