"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ending off conversations.

Keeper

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Mostly on phone and chat... how do you guys end your convos?

I need some examples. I'm getting sick the good old ciao, chereio, bye, night, g'nite, cheers, ok im off....

Sometimes I do the whole 'scuse me while I go feed my pet dinosaur' but still. i need some spicey words.

nobody even dare raise an eyebrow at this post. or i will unleash my pet dinosaur on you!!! uhm... ya
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I usually say I am getting ready to go somewhere, and I'm kind of in a hurry so I'm not too late. The key word here is "too".

It works every time, and most of the time, it is mostly true, but I am never actually late, I just tell her that to make her think that I am in a hurry that absolutely can not wait. It works every time.
 

Alphathree

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Just say whatever you want. Words aren't that important.

If you feel you've ended the conversation too abruptly and she says something cold like "okay bye," you can always just say it right back exactly like she did: "okay bye"

It'll lighten the tone and be funny, but the conversation will still end.
 

Gonzalo

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Hmm... "gotta get going, talk to you later" ?

You know, like you're not trying to hard to make it seem like you have cool sh1t to do, yet remain mysterious...
 
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