"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ending it with bad tempered Gf

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End it.

End it bro, life is entirely too short to get all worked up over one girl. Meet someone who doesn't bring this b.s. into your life. There are tons of women out there dying to meet a DJ like you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Latinoman said:
How she reacted to this?

I sense that she wanted to end things a while back.
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She was sad. But she knew that i didnt want to settle down anytime soon and she cant wait. So there wasnt much sense wasting each others time any longer.

Cant deny that i have feelings for her though. Its been 2yrs and even we argued alot, there were happy moments.
 
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And now you're going to have a whole bunch of new happy moments with some other babes. Keep positive.
 
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Blues said:
She was sad. But she knew that i didnt want to settle down anytime soon and she cant wait. So there wasnt much sense wasting each others time any longer.

Cant deny that i have feelings for her though. Its been 2yrs and even we argued alot, there were happy moments.
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There is a strong possibility that she already has her sight on somebody else. Or somebody else has shown interest to her and she is interested in him. Or worst.

That's my educated guess.
 
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And now you're going to have a whole bunch of new happy moments with some other babes. Keep positive.
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Exactly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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