"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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End of First Date

ions

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Suppose you had a First Date and you are not really feeling the connection with this person.

At the end of the date do you say "I'll call you" even though you don't intend to or is it better to just be honest and say "Thank you for the Date but we just didn't click."

Or is it better to say "I'll call you" but then text them the next day to say " I wasn't feeling it."

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kenny Powers

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No no you've got it all wrong, at the end of the date you want to say "i'll text you" and then call telling the girl to check her phone and that's when you send the text saying you weren't feeling it.

I'll give you a break cause your new, but others might not be so kind, in fact i know they won't.

Details like this don't really matter bro, you should really be asking yourself why this is the part of your game that you are focusing on. Just be polite and do whatever, your breaking it off after 1 date, not a big deal.
 

Szyzzlin

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hahaa.... I like option B. The next day she wakes up with a text that says "I wasn't feeling it". She'll be like wtf??
 

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Just say "thank you, I had a good night" and leave it at that. If you don't feel it then don't initiate contact, she will get the idea. To me it's a good way because it's only the first date, she won't be hurt by no contact. By saying you "wasn't feeling it" is kinda insulting for a girl.
 

dementia

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HAHAHAHAH that was golden. Honestly even if you want another date dont say anything. Just say I hope the rest of your day goes well, bye... It keeps them guessing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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