"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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End of Fbuddy / friends with benefits 7 months

DonGorgon

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yup had a 19 year old HB 9 college girl on my team she provided sex every time i saw her for 7 months but 2 times per week... she had a guy friends back home where she is from who she F also and he asked her to be his official girl ever since that she has cut me off sexually but wants to keep me arousn as a friend..

I wana keep Fing her like always but she wont F anymore.. what should i do
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pdx1138

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C'mon Don, you know EXACTLY what to do.

get with the program.
 

pdx1138

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in another thread you said you had 3 FB's.

so 2 left. I don't see the problem.

Moral support? Man up!
 

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OK moral support - just returning what someone helped me with this morning.

Don't contact her. Find other chicks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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