"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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End of Fbuddy / friends with benefits 7 months

DonGorgon

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yup had a 19 year old HB 9 college girl on my team she provided sex every time i saw her for 7 months but 2 times per week... she had a guy friends back home where she is from who she F also and he asked her to be his official girl ever since that she has cut me off sexually but wants to keep me arousn as a friend..

I wana keep Fing her like always but she wont F anymore.. what should i do
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pdx1138

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C'mon Don, you know EXACTLY what to do.

get with the program.
 

pdx1138

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in another thread you said you had 3 FB's.

so 2 left. I don't see the problem.

Moral support? Man up!
 

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OK moral support - just returning what someone helped me with this morning.

Don't contact her. Find other chicks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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