"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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As I've brooded on my life in the past few months after visiting this site (and realizing how far I've fallen after one-itis), I've spent the time since then improving myself with tips from the DJ Bible, forums, and real-world experience.

Wow, so one-itis in the 9th grade really knocked me out for much of high school. Socially-reclused, although my outer appearance (i guess i'm cute, worked out like a OCD-motherfarker for all of high school), I became a "super-nerd". This did ultimately help me with my SATs and college apps, but I could have had my cake and eaten it too.

It's come to the point where everything I'm supposed to do as a fully-functional male in an emasculated society is coming normally.

The [normal] adventure of life is beginning.

God speed to you all [AFCs, DJs, etc] and wish me the best of "luck" (there is no such thing as luck, just good timing)

XOXO to you bros, XOXO to my future HOs (i mean, respectable young ladies).

I've learned how the woman mind works, and I still can't believe it's that illogical, skewed, and farked-up.

Oh, well, when in Rome...

p (2nd-year college STUD-ent)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by drSpum85

XOXO to you bros,
Only part of your post I didn't like. :D
 

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It's always nice to welcome a new face. I guess the main thing I'm going to tell you, (and this is advice I shoudl be giving myself as well), is that you just have to get out there, and don't spend too much time typing on these boards. I'm just getting over a one-itis as well, and spamming these boards is basically how I'm dealing with it. Don't fall into that for too long. Get out there.
 

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omg

so i managed to get a "date" (basically a false-pretense before farking-steadily) with my favorite gal from latin-dance last semester (when i was still AFC.... tied down in a failing relationship).

Giggity-giggity and enjoy life fellas,

p
 

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WELCOME BACK Black Italian :D


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: pimpfromdayone
“And you're saying party chicks haven't been shared by more dudes than a rental car? “

Quote: LJC
“ You're not a DJ, you're a pimp “

Quote: LJC
“ You don't strike me as crafty and seductive, you strike me as stubborn and pimpish “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ Your woman in my opinion shouldn't be talking to an ex. It's ok to have men friends but friends whom she used to suck their dycks is not in my picture. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

Quote: MindOverMatter
“ No player has this kind of hate, because nothing women do can get to him, or frustrate him “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!! Quit eating pvssy!!!! “

Quote: PVSSY-EATER
“ Just dont think by you opening a door, buying her catfish, or mowing her lawn that you are going to get puzzy “

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: diplomatic_lies
“ And now, in the spirit of PRL, I'm going to fill up the screen with exclaimation marks “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ Yeah i saw this today and it remided me of you" --- then show her a doll of a sumo wrestler! “

Quote: Mack Bishop
“ if you want her to know you really, truly care, buy her a treadmill “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
PR_L's first rule of women - "They only get bigger!!!!!" Most women are lazy and hate to put forth effort and exercise - RUN!!!

Quote: il_duce
“B1tch is just another word for a confident woman who always wants to have her way.

A$$hole is just another word for a confident man who won't take sh!t from a b1tch.

Why do you think the majority of hot girls are reffered to as 'b1tches' and the guys who get laid all the time are reffered to as 'a$$holes'?

This is how I see it: the two words were made up as weapons to use against the opposite sex, and they're supposed to be insulting, but all they really do is compliment on the sexual prowess of that person.

In other words, it pays to be an 'a$$hole'. Imho, you can be an 'a$$hole' and still be a decent person. When you get around the negative connontation the word has, you will see the positive traits that these men exhibit which are attractive to women. “

Quote: maddman75
“ I am the prize. I like what I see so far, so I'll give her an opportunity to show me that she's worth my time and effort. If she rejects me, she's a fool. I'll just go find the next lucky chick and let her have what this chick is throwing away. “

Quote : TillTheEndOfTime
“ WH0RES on the other hand do not respect their bodies one bit. They indiscriminantly have sex so long as you meet some basic, superficial requirements that are much less demanding than that of a WOMAN. They have few if any redeeming qualities. They have very little to offer besides sex. They USE sex as a controlling mechanism to get what they want out of a man, or for just pure pleasure.

You fuvk WH0RES.

You have relationships with WOMAN “

The DJ Code :

1. his pleasure comes first
2. he will quickly dump a woman who gives him trouble
3. doesn’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. doesn’t let women or people disrespect him.
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about him and isn’t looking for approval.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
WELCOME BACK Black Italian :D
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

j/k welcome aboard
 

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5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it

I disagree. Anger is afc behavior. Calm, cool, and collected like James Bond is the DJ way. I struggle with this myself.
 

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anger is a natural human reaction

built into our whole being

it is there to protect us

i have seen James Bond get pissed off and kick a$$ / take names

you will see James Bond threaten plenty of people when he gets angry

as long as you have decent self control

YOU MUST BEWARE the trap that society teches us that getting angry is WRONG

you are bad and there is something wrong with you

that is a lie from the feminist pit of hell

alot of times men won't act and cut off a woman unless she has really pissed them off

we are becming so pu$$yfied soon we will forget how to be angry

when we retard the anger 24/7 because it's not politically correct to EVER be angry it causes damage to us internally


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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i concur

Yes, watch out for your own irrationality that anger [and intoxication] causes. Stand up for yourself but don't get killed. Get some martial arts training for discipline, skill, and balance.

The more you sweat while training, the less you bleed in war.

Also, in this 'civilized' society, most men think that their physical superiority (taller/bigger/fatter than my 5'8 (155lb) self) can get others to back down and just become obsequious pussies. Standing up for yourself and going full-psycho in your mentality (think of Tyler Durden as he was beaten by the mobster Lou) can earn one a lot of respect. Ugh, and fratboys are some of the biggest pussies you'll meet once you get past their 'Greek front' (unless they're in a drunken mob, but this is where you need to have some of your own homeboys to back you up if needed). Work out, bulk-up, and train for life.

Again, just don't get killed,

p

also, who's this fellow everyone keeps refering to in a jovial manner?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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