"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Emotional Maturity

Y

yuppaz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2008
Messages
1,025
Reaction score
99
JohnyTheArrow said:
You dont know anything you only assume.Most 'models' were lux escorts doing the most depraved things for rich customers, after their 'career' they always looks for nice guys to settle down.

Of course they didnt bang some random dudes in ons they did rich guys for money.

Only very few girls make any decent money by modeling, models industry is lux wh0re service for rich people.
Click to expand...

Sounds like an elaborate excuse you have come up with to explain why you are not dating these women. I am a fine art photographer , know loads of models make up artists, hair stylists, retouchers etc. and no, for the most part these girls are nowhere near *****s. They are f&coming cool as hell, smart, fun to be around, show appreciation, some are nerdy, some are more extroverted etc. They DO have their pick of all men, and they really aren't after money (or a very small percentage are). They want strong, confident, high self esteem men who THEY need to chase...... But if it helps you sleep better at night, you can stick with your little ego driven excuse. I'm sure that belief will get you the type of women you want
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

O

Oxide

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2003
Messages
3,229
Reaction score
27
Another great thread. As someone who's had a crazy ex recently - read this thread. TEST WOMEN for stability - are her parents together, how long were her LTR? Does she dress slutty going out? Does she crave attention of other men? What happens when she drinks? Most important - is she trying to sell you excuses or bull**** you (trick you) into rationalizing stuff? These crazy chicks can rationalize ANYTHING. Also it's tricky because I used to think crazy girls are just crazy all the time (its easier w Western chicks they are usually broken easy to spot) but a girl can be actually good to you, and caring, but yet have these traits and boom you have biploarity and a crazy situation. Don't get these chicks pregnant!
 
ubercat

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
Didn't we used to just say good girls. Who are generally quieter and not SM addicts. I m sure we had plenty of threads on where to find them.
 
ubercat

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
Social Media. As opposed to S&M fetlife onlyforfans type chicks who I suspect wouldnt be a good long term bet
 
Last edited:

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

TheKid

TheKid

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2020
Messages
124
Reaction score
125
Age
33
Oxide said:
Another great thread. As someone who's had a crazy ex recently - read this thread. TEST WOMEN for stability - are her parents together, how long were her LTR? Does she dress slutty going out? Does she crave attention of other men? What happens when she drinks? Most important - is she trying to sell you excuses or bull**** you (trick you) into rationalizing stuff? These crazy chicks can rationalize ANYTHING. Also it's tricky because I used to think crazy girls are just crazy all the time (its easier w Western chicks they are usually broken easy to spot) but a girl can be actually good to you, and caring, but yet have these traits and boom you have biploarity and a crazy situation. Don't get these chicks pregnant!
Click to expand...
Women can rationalize anything ive seen it happen, its so ****ing wierd. It makes me think they all have personality disorders.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top