MenAreBetterPeople
Don Juan
It's said that women are repulsed by AFC behavior. Ok, but what explains the EMO dudes pulling so much tail then? I see it often. And might I add, many of these EMO chicks are smokin' hot.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah that's what I think too cause the emo trend is just their front, what happens if she or he stops being emo and starts joining mainstream normal society. But then again I know a couple 30s-40s people who are into goth still, sad.Hawke said:The question though is can these emo guys hold onto those girls for long...
Probably because he has a social circle and access to girls. :nono: I think the whole emo thing is lame and posuerish, but that doesn't make them inherently bad people (they just have bad taste in fashon and music)... you have to get to know each individual to pass that judgement. Just because someone doesn't dress like you doens't meen that they are not worthwhile to women (or others in general), nor does the fact that they are an "AFC". In fact, I firmly belive this whole AFC thing is proabably the biggest crock that goes around here on sosuave. If you've got some inherent value to women (good looking, common interests, fun, rich, etc.) AFC behavior will be overlooked so fast by all women except for the ones that have been molested and trashed-on who need a 'badboy'.MenAreBetterPeople said:It's said that women are repulsed by AFC behavior. Ok, but what explains the EMO dudes pulling so much tail then? I see it often. And might I add, many of these EMO chicks are smokin' hot.
priceless.....Natch said:Buy yourself some tight jeans , slick down your hair , get beat up by some straightedgers and you too can be an emo kid.
Hahah! "My life is... tightening... kinda like my little sister's jeans... which look great on me btw."rapless said:When in doubt, watch this video and re-evaluate the mentality of girls who dig emo guys: http://youtube.com/watch?v=XEJDGLF-e18&search=must be emo
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.