MenAreBetterPeople
Don Juan
It's said that women are repulsed by AFC behavior. Ok, but what explains the EMO dudes pulling so much tail then? I see it often. And might I add, many of these EMO chicks are smokin' hot.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah that's what I think too cause the emo trend is just their front, what happens if she or he stops being emo and starts joining mainstream normal society. But then again I know a couple 30s-40s people who are into goth still, sad.Hawke said:The question though is can these emo guys hold onto those girls for long...
Probably because he has a social circle and access to girls. :nono: I think the whole emo thing is lame and posuerish, but that doesn't make them inherently bad people (they just have bad taste in fashon and music)... you have to get to know each individual to pass that judgement. Just because someone doesn't dress like you doens't meen that they are not worthwhile to women (or others in general), nor does the fact that they are an "AFC". In fact, I firmly belive this whole AFC thing is proabably the biggest crock that goes around here on sosuave. If you've got some inherent value to women (good looking, common interests, fun, rich, etc.) AFC behavior will be overlooked so fast by all women except for the ones that have been molested and trashed-on who need a 'badboy'.MenAreBetterPeople said:It's said that women are repulsed by AFC behavior. Ok, but what explains the EMO dudes pulling so much tail then? I see it often. And might I add, many of these EMO chicks are smokin' hot.
priceless.....Natch said:Buy yourself some tight jeans , slick down your hair , get beat up by some straightedgers and you too can be an emo kid.
Hahah! "My life is... tightening... kinda like my little sister's jeans... which look great on me btw."rapless said:When in doubt, watch this video and re-evaluate the mentality of girls who dig emo guys: http://youtube.com/watch?v=XEJDGLF-e18&search=must be emo
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.