"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EMERGENCY BIRTHDAY GIFT--Need help please!!

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otr4

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Hello,
I haven't posted here for a while because I found a really great girl who I've been with for over a year now.
The problem, is, her birthday is on Friday and I can't think of a gift idea! I'm completely stuck... I need to get her a cool, creative gift (on a budget). We were having "problems" on her last birthday--we were not talking at the time-- so it makes THIS birthday all the more important.

My girlfriend is an artist--creative, likes to draw, paint, and does graphic design for a living.

I really need your help guys--I've used this forum for years for all sorts of situations and problems and know I can always count on your help. Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gixxer

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How about something sort of out of the ordinary? Tell her you have something really special planned and to come over comfortable you want to build up the suspense a bit. Have a bubble bath ready for her, give her a glass of wine, then make her dinner. If you can't cook go pick up some good take out while she relaxes in the bath. You could have a gift for her too at this point, but the special treatment will take some pressure off the gift.

I've used the bubble bath idea before and it is MAGIC especially if she's had a hard week at work........

gixx
 
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ya candles and such.....make a romantic evening culminating in that special gift......... tell her u wanna make up treat her to dinner (as shes worthy), and ur place. paddled roses (no its not common)

Have you had any special moments with her, relate to those key moments and a gift idea will evenually come to mind.

one gift thats great is to make her remember when u first meet her.....like the peice of paper she wrote her # on[
I usually keep all my numbers i collect which come in handy some times] or a treasure hunting game with a sexual twist....

Ideas are endless google it.
 
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