"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EMERGENCY BIRTHDAY GIFT--Need help please!!

otr4

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Hello,
I haven't posted here for a while because I found a really great girl who I've been with for over a year now.
The problem, is, her birthday is on Friday and I can't think of a gift idea! I'm completely stuck... I need to get her a cool, creative gift (on a budget). We were having "problems" on her last birthday--we were not talking at the time-- so it makes THIS birthday all the more important.

My girlfriend is an artist--creative, likes to draw, paint, and does graphic design for a living.

I really need your help guys--I've used this forum for years for all sorts of situations and problems and know I can always count on your help. Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gixxer

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How about something sort of out of the ordinary? Tell her you have something really special planned and to come over comfortable you want to build up the suspense a bit. Have a bubble bath ready for her, give her a glass of wine, then make her dinner. If you can't cook go pick up some good take out while she relaxes in the bath. You could have a gift for her too at this point, but the special treatment will take some pressure off the gift.

I've used the bubble bath idea before and it is MAGIC especially if she's had a hard week at work........

gixx
 

Kaparski

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ya candles and such.....make a romantic evening culminating in that special gift......... tell her u wanna make up treat her to dinner (as shes worthy), and ur place. paddled roses (no its not common)

Have you had any special moments with her, relate to those key moments and a gift idea will evenually come to mind.

one gift thats great is to make her remember when u first meet her.....like the peice of paper she wrote her # on[
I usually keep all my numbers i collect which come in handy some times] or a treasure hunting game with a sexual twist....

Ideas are endless google it.
 
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