Embrace's Approach Journal

[Embrace]

I have never done a cold approach so I plan to do as many as Ican when there is an opportunity

I realize I have nothing to lose and only ladies to gain.

Rules:

1) If she's alone, or with other girls approach (no dudes with them)
2) I must be attracted to her physically
3) No making up dumb excuses
4) Whenever in a public area, if the opportunity arises, take it

I will approach more than one girl by saying hi, acknowledging what they are doing and the fact that I am interupting, and ask to speak with the girl that I have my eye on. From that point i will introduce myself, ask her name, and depending on the location, ask if she comes often, etc. Just general small talk. I will have a reason to get out of there such as I need to catch up with my buddies, or whatever. From there I will get her number and suggest we grab coffee sometime.

I will be dominant, in control, have confidence, and be a man.
I will be sure about everything I say. I will demonstrate higher value. She's lucky that I am interested in her. She is lucky that I am willing to hang out with her some time.

I will wait a few days after getting her number and call. If she does not answer the first time I call I will delete her number and not try again.

If she doesn't remember me when I call, I must have the wrong number and I will delete it.




If you have any suggestions on any of this, let me know. I may add more as well.

I will put up my approach once I do it.


Please give suggestions, advice, tips, constructive critisism, any input is greatly appreciated.

 

[Embrace]

This will take effect on June 28, 2006 once I go out. Tommorow I don't have to work, so I have all day.

I will update this thread with the imediate progress, whether or not I had any success.

Please help me along to succeed

 

[Anomalous]

Great! Good luck. Very good, and though out plan.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

First of all Good luck although you should start your apporach journal after your first apporach.

I have a problem with 1 of your rules.

1) If she's alone, or with other girls approach (no dudes with them)

I have apporached girls with guys before. Half the time some are cool or just a friend.
You are limiting yourself but not wanting to apporach a girl with a guy around them.
First of all if you see 2 girls with 1 guy. Then apporach, because their is a low low chance that the guy is going out with both of them.

Then he could just be a friend, most the time girls hold hands with the guy they are going out with.

A quote for you.

He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.
Muhammad Ali

Use my journal tips to help you out. I just updated with 2 new posts.