"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Embrace your sexuality!

Devestator

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Pook, you're idea of a man seems like the male characters in Heinlein's SF. Especially Lazarus Long.

I'm such a nerd :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ladiesssman

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I kind of experience it myself. So I must agree with Pook. If a girl likes you, expressing your exuality makes her like you even more.
And initially, experessing your sexuality attracts her to you. Even the way you walk, as musculine, talk and joke. YOu don't have to be a pervert to express your sexuality. Being a pervert will scare women away. But once she's yours, even talking pervert will make you attract to you more.

My experience, when I was f*king my gf (my x) , she was into it, reaching her peak. I paused and she didn't like me stopping. I was teasing her and it makes her want it even more. She begs me to continue. So I told her "say please f*uck me" She was so f*king horny, and she said exactly what I want her to. My other gf (my other x) was also horny while having sex and that's the word came out of her mouth "f*ck me" "harder." And she does like to talk dirty sometimes, it depends on her mood.

Pook is right. He's the man.
 
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